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ableist trauma 

Ableist trauma is having learned to reflexively make up excuses why you didn't do something, because nobody ever believed you when you told them the truth.

@twotone
how about a tiny skateboard and the caption "tony the hawk"?

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So apparently Google is blocking uBlock from Chrome.

I hereby rebrand Google Chrome as "Google Firefox Downloader".

@schmidt mozilla.social/@schmidt/111425

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Asking the psychologists out there:

So from my experience with how otherwise healthy people deal with stress, and triggers I know there is a behavioral pattern in which people who have experienced severe stress over longer periods of time and are presented with the possibility of avoidance will avoid any triggers connected to that stressor. Basically as a mechanism to avoid stress induced trauma.

Somehow it is my working theory why societies tend to become crisis-blind if they feel they aren't directly affected.
Like, we ignore the climate crisis and engage in cliomate-destroying behaviour like meat consumption, recreational fossil fuel burning, consumerism etc. quite similar to us ignoring the ongoing Covid Endemic. We are moved by those things when they first occur but if we hold up that mental load for too long, we simply become blind to it.

So I wonder if there's a term for that or if I am completely off here.

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"We don't need to visit Egypt, we've got Suez at home."

Suez at home:

joke about impostor syndrome, not serious 

@phseiff
ah i see.. do you benefit from affirmations/deconstructing premises?
if you do:
there is no right or wrong way to be any gender. you don't have to perform gender at all time. nobody knows you better than you.
its normal to feel these things. i hope you can find the self security you are looking for.

(my agender perspective on gender makes it look like a skill sometimes)

ph ~ 

@endeavorance
personally my fingers lock up and "jump" less since i built myself an ergodox. so i would say there are effects.
my problem is EDS tho, not carpal tunnel shenanigans.

joke about impostor syndrome, not serious 

@phseiff
gatekeeper voice: are you sure you aren't just filled half?

(you are more capable than you think. its okay to be invested into something just a bit.)

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ableism, the first rule of thumb we want everyone to learn 

don't use medical language as an insult

that's names of personality disorders, developmental disorders, widely-documented neurodivergences, classes of injury, none of it

go ahead and get rid of references to drugs, too, while you're at it

talk about what people do and are doing and keep doing, not about what medicalized group you assume is sufficiently inferior to 'normal' people to do what they do

- 🎒 💢

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why do i keep forgetting i have access to pain meds and that it isn't noble to suffer.

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This comic has been living rent-free in my brain for years now

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"Research shows 150 Indigenous communities acknowledge multiple genders; colonialism introduced idea of binary"

cbc.ca/news/canada/saskatchewa

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I know most people don't understand what the big deal is with masks. The "big" deal with masks is they are so small and insignificant a "sacrifice" to help vulnerable people that it makes it abundantly clear that every other fight we are up against will be unattainable if the inconvenience is modestly above that. Yes, that is why all these other fights have suddenly risen altogether. They see how little comfort you will give up to help another. So-called leftists caved, they saw opportunity.

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Coronavirus, Long Covid, ME/CFS 

Seems it might not be common knowledge that if you have covid, you *mustn't* push yourself to build your activity levels back to normal. There's a high likelihood that Long Covid is a type of ME/CFS, a disabling chronic illness which often follows a viral infection. Everyone with ME will tell you: do not push yourself! At that delicate phase of recovery you could seriously risk becoming permanently disabled. Rest as much as possible, and err on the safe side!

ph - 

@joepie91 mood. i also seem to get migraines from aspartame and acesulfam-k?

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tired: using travelynx or whatnot to share detailed info about your train riding lifestyle

wired: manually posting "eine zugfahrt die ist lustig" etc every time you're on a train

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