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aggressively recruiting my new friend into fedi

trans, positive? 

@Dee i agree you not getting murdered is good. i am happy the dee is still alive.

my deadname will forever be in the arctic code vault

@meganeko@miaow.gay hopefully-not-dismissive reminder to cw next time

@forever@fedi.nullob.si what if you subposted me

@chrissi@snug.moe @nippa@mstdn.jp maoamomaomaomaomaom

mei 🌒& boosted

⭐ < on þe one hand being a þerapist could be cool but also to me it just doesn't feel right to. Idk study psychology for þat. I mean I get it but. It feels off. But þen again þat's not really how I support people I don't use any Meþods and Strategies I just do normal friend stuff ⭐
⭐ And well I guess a lot of stuff a þerapist learns is like... just. Actual good tips and whatnot ⭐
⭐ But also þings like only having limited time in a session and whatnot. And to some extent doing it just for money ⭐
⭐ I dont even mind if þey're strangers, really ⭐
⭐ But like literally working like 8 hours or someþing might take away too much emotional energy from even me and at least currently if I am out of it I am Out ⭐

@vv @zalasur@mastodon.technology @ALBANGO you mean: there's still a chance that likes sewing.

-- pronoun.is/that/bitch/x/x/x/x

oh my not having discord open most of the day has made it significantly better. no more getting distracted by silly conversations constantly, the matrix people i'm around seem to be usually more ontopic

and fedi still has plenty of shitposting, but slower so i don't have to constantly look to keep up. just whenever i want and there's almost always only like 10 notifications max and usually less

@darius i think it usually comes from like a "automatic respect" type thing, which i don't think was the case here but i don't give a fuck about automatic respect so if whoever i'm talking to gets upset because i'm undermining their independence or whatever i am yoting myself the fuck out of there

though when it's just "this thing is stupid, here, see the stupid" it's okay in that regard, though these kind of posts are also kind of bad since they just show "i don't care enough about this to dig in and find a proper solution/major blocker so i'm just gonna complain"

and both of these vary based on where you are, hence why i am going to go back to my little part of fedi (maybe)

@darius i instinctively respond to problems-that-look-like-questions with answers if i know them. that's a side effect of being in various #​help-with-<thing> chats a looot

@lyncia mao

i use toot for quick thoughts where i dont wanna get distracted by reading posts, and the masto frontend for Actually Interacting

screenreader unfriendly probably 

@zkat @darius
am tired and have been debugging a stupid thing for hours but tldr i'm not an evangelist, @joepie91 explains this well in social.pixie.town/@joepie91/10

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