how a lot of cis people sound
CFP!
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When I opened the book, the ink of all the letters leapt off the pages, formed a cat, and ran off.
Long did I chase it, long and far, tracing faint smudges and soft murmurs of unread words.
"Why do you run?"
"People read me and weep."
"Ah. So you give relief."
"I do?"
"You do."
oh. my. god.
i just learned about the existence of RASPBERRY PI TABLETS.
sure, they are clunkier and have much less battery time than regular tablets but
full functionality of any computer
real linux
100 % user-repairable
i… omg. do i have 250 €? no. but. BUT. that is just so fucking awesome
also i am just now realising that absolutely nothing (other than money) could stop me from building one myself. you can 3-d print a case. you could even use an e-ink display. WHAT
@thufie high tech low life
mh question
@lyncia
yes. expecting the pattern to continue even after years of the pattern not having happened is very common with trauma.
Depol, SBGG, genocide
Believe me, I wanna burn down this state as much as the next tranny but for the sake of your mental health hear me out.
Many people are afraid of agencies creating pink lists of trans people and once the fascists are in power, engage in an open attempt to genocide us. And that's a real thing to be concerned with. (Read a history book if you think otherwise)
Nevertheless, the newly proposed self-ID law doesn't really worsen the threat of a state organized genocide more then it already is.
A fascist government will easily pull the list of everyone ever being treated with a F64 diagnosis (I know not everyone is but most are at one point or another seeking out some form of transcare), regardless of name change. I mean, they wouldn't just let every trans person that went through the old TSG process get away, wouldn't they?
Like, I dunno, when people donate money to "Mastodon" on Patreon, I don't really think they are doing it so mastodon.social can be the biggest, bestest server ever.
They want features, and they want developers who work on the project to be paid, and they probably want stuff like a community manager (who could be paid) and all kinds of stuff like that.
And if you give them that toolkit and a fairly easy "press play" way to spin up their own server, like....again...
What if instead of "Join Server" there was also a "Create Server" button?
And that server got preloaded with a blocklist (which could match mastodon.social's, I don't especially care so long as it's not empty), and there was really good initial setup tools for new admins.
And then mastodon just has to scale outward, not upward.
Kids mh-
we mask so much we forgot who we are beneath personally. one thing that helps is to have people try and look behind the masks.
so make sure to really try and peer behind the masks as much as possible and acknowledge and mirror all you can make out. because trying to heighten their self esteem won't work if its something they don't consider as part of their self.
Kids mh-
@newt
advice from the neurdivergent side, not so much the caring for kids side.
for neurodivergent kids in general:
make sure they have language to describe their experiences with the world. language for their sensory perception, for executive functioning, for overloads, for masking, for stimming and so on. maybe get them a feelings wheel printed and laminated and focus on really seeing them as they are. give honest praise or acknowledgement for their actual core traits and not their masks. show real interest in their hobbies and interests if you have any. let them know that its okay to stim in private and public if it helps regulate or even if its just fun.
climate catastrophy, liberal propaganda
Once you realize you've heard about 'carbon capture' only being a few years away since you were a fucking child you really start to see how that idea is always deployed.
"A genius will invent a technology that will surely solve our mistakes faster than we can keep making them" is literally just "a wizard will save us" for STEM-bros. It's utter nonsense.
And it's always said in the same breath as "...so we don't need to fix our emissions now", too 😐
"I just have some concerns", long
We all know the concern trolls who are "raising some concerns" when talking about protections for marginalized folks, and who already know that they're not problems, they're just trying to sow discord.
But another, more insidious form of this are the people - usually centrists or liberals - who legitimately believe that they are raising legitimate concerns, and are doing so in a harmful manner.
There's an obvious form of privilege here; those raising the concerns are typically not part of the affected group, and so unlike the affected group, they can afford to treat it like some hypothetical thought experiment, whereas the affected marginalized folks are living the consequences right here and now.
But that's not what I want to talk about. Because it goes much deeper than that.
For example, these "concerns" are usually the absolute most obvious things that you could think of - and somehow, the concern-raisers believe that they are specially qualified to have such a novel insight.
They don't stop to consider that maybe this concern was already raised hundreds of times before, and relitigated over and over again, and found to not be (sufficiently) relevant. They don't really take the time to research it - instead just assuming that they're the first.
That's privilege.
This usually combines with another problematic factor; when the concerns are raised, a response like "yeah we've thought of that" isn't considered enough. Instead, the concern-raiser will not stop pushing until *they, personally* are satisfied that it's addressed.
They are not merely raising a concern to help; they are considering themselves to be the arbiter of truth, as if their approval is required to go ahead with the plan. They are assuming authority.
That's privilege.
Those in the best position to understand the circumstances and needs of marginalized folks, are those marginalized folks themselves. Approval by the privileged is not required.
Listen to marginalized people. Yes, even if you have "concerns".
@funkula
*cries in lumpenproletariat*
@cjrando
make art until you made art. art as just a thing people do is important and nice.
gory violence; re: prolly kinda petty, ???, the struggle between wanting to be a good person and wanting revenge
@phseiff
anger shows you where your boundaries were violated or where you where hurt. sure it can take forms that we don't like. but its still an important emotion that needs to be listened to to plan future behaviour and to channel it in a way that works for us.
my own revenge fantasies got less when i got further away from those that hurt me...
prolly kinda petty, ???, the struggle between wanting to be a good person and wanting revenge
@phseiff ah i see... anger is a difficult emotion to process. even if its an important one that protects you.
prolly kinda petty, ???, the struggle between wanting to be a good person and wanting revenge
@phseiff
what speaks against cultivating some hate against them? or revenge fantasies?
violent turn of phrase, sensory discussion
@SehrLesbisch
i need my frequency response linear if at all possible, thank you very much. anything else feels bad and wrong and ouch.
posts about feelings sometimes
gender egoist
anti-essentialist
anarchist weirdo
neuroqueer
is an identity crisis
healthn't
please tell me things directly instead of passively if possible