#AskFedi: what keeps you from building your own community space on the web, that works exactly the way you want? :boost_requested:
This doesn't have to be about a fediverse space, and it doesn't matter what kind of reason it is - technical, financial, social, ethical, otherwise, I want to hear them all 🙂
(Boosts much appreciated, I'm hoping for this to get outside of my bubble!)
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@cephie Thanks, that all makes sense.
One thing that I feel may be worth pointing out, is that *most* bog-standard VPS providers (the kind where you pay X per month and get a plan with Y resources) will throttle or suspend your VPS rather than charging overages, so the failure mode for unexpected traffic is "site is down or slow" rather than "unexpected costs". Suddenly charging tons of money is mostly just something the cloudycloud providers like AWS do.
This sort of stuff is often not clearly documented, hence wanting to point it out - but that's not a solution to the rest of your points of course!
@StroomAfwaarts When you say "could build something far better", do you mean from a technical perspective, or from a community management perspective, or something else?
@shauna That's my understanding, yep. Or alternatively use a tool that can do both in one pass - ESLint would be one example of that, although I'm not sure how far its auto-formatting capabilities reach so it *may* not be the best example.
(Assuming that enforcing consistent formatting is desirable for the project in the first place, of course - as that's often a topic of discussion)
(maybe i do have the right bubble to try this)
Hi 👋 Do you or a somebody you know own an NMBS/SNCB ARI Disc? Diskette, CD, whatever? From whenever, I do not care.
It would be amazing if I could borrow one, I am trying to preserve copies of these however they seem to be lost in piles of trash. If you know somebody who has one happy to put a copy of it for the world to enjoy planning trains 90s style!
(If I have enough i might reverse engineer it to ship up to date schedules for it)
Background: I always ask these sorts of questions for the same reason - to keep my understanding of barriers that people run into "up-to-date"; and to make sure that I'm not overlooking things, especially those I might not experience myself.
The answers to these sorts of questions are an important part of how I decide what to focus my own efforts on, and I prefer doing it publicly so that hopefully it can inform other folks' priorities too.
#AskFedi: what keeps you from building your own community space on the web, that works exactly the way you want? :boost_requested:
This doesn't have to be about a fediverse space, and it doesn't matter what kind of reason it is - technical, financial, social, ethical, otherwise, I want to hear them all 🙂
(Boosts much appreciated, I'm hoping for this to get outside of my bubble!)
From Houston oil to Pittsburgh steel to Portland timber, Norwood Viviano's kiln-cast glass sculptures map iconic city skylines through each location’s recognizable industries.
https://www.thisiscolossal.com/2024/08/norwood-viviano-glass-cities/
re: 4/shitty tumblr queers, "DNI"
@forestine @elexia if “queer” is a slur then yes please, I want to be called slurs.
on a more serious note, as someone who often helps people figure out or improve their hrt access/dosage/effects, I wish I had similarly good sources of information about transmasc hrt as I do for transfem.
I get where the “t is icky” attitude comes from, for many transfems this is what they see as a substance that “destroyed their bodies” in ways that are either irreversible or require a huge effort and expense to change - but that is, uh, not a great way to process the pain and sense of loss this causes. it keeps people stuck instead of moving on, centers the trans identity around dysphoria instead of euphoria and alienates half of us as the “other side”. yes, half of us.
one of the most amazing experiences I had that helped me find healthy ways of dealing with all kinds of dysphoria was a long, personal conversation with a transmasc enby friend about our pre-transition and transition experiences, including effects of puberty and hrt - on the body, emotions, sexuality, everything.
we spoke of the exact same things, just swapped around on the timeline and associates with entirely opposite feelings. realizing this was, first of all, funny. seeing the same things I hated, described by someone for whom they brought joy and hope, changed the way I think of them - and he felt the same about his sources of dysphoria.
trans people need interactions like that, we need a community where we can have them.
@godotengine I'm not surprised to hear that it happens especially on Mastodon, unfortunately. If I had to guess, a lot of them probably originate from Fosstodon? As there are frequent complaints across fedi of this kind of behaviour from there... (but I've definitely also seen it from other instances.)
Good to hear that there's a layer of insulation, though - just please make sure that you don't burn out either :)
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@lnl (...which, ironically, I don't think hides notifications referencing people who have been defederated from?)
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@lnl I guess I end up using the blocking feature pretty differently because nearly all of the instances full of assholes are blocked on an instance level here
@shauna Far as I understand, the purposes overlap but neither is a subset of the other: a linter might identify problems that cannot be resolved automatically, but doesn't fix anything). So a linter has a bigger detection scope but no fixing capability, and a formatter has a fixing capability but a smaller detection scope.
And then some tools are (or can be) both, and then on top of *that* the terms are used semi-interchangeably depending on what a tool looks like it's made for aesthetically.
(Edited and reposted because my original description really wasn't very clear at all either)
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@lnl I can understand to some degree for replies that are primarily to person A, yeah, but just muting anything *mentioning* that person seems... like something that should probably be an opt-in thing?
@BIJ1 Mooi artikel. Wel jammer dat dit soort artikelen altijd onder 'opinie' gezet worden, en de artikelen in de rest van de krant altijd de trickle-down ideologie herhalen en onkritisch zijn... (niet alleen bij Trouw, overigens).
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