I find it really fascinating how an ever-increasing proportion of "folks I have stayed in touch with after meeting them in various completely unrelated communities over the past 15 years" are turning out to be trans in some way (even if I have a pretty good idea about why this happens)

subtoot, schools, LLMs 

Like, I get it, LLMs are terrible and all, and you won't find me disagreeing there, but "our sacred homework standards!" is extremely *not* the hill to be dying on there

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subtoot, schools 

"Why would you use LLMs to do your homework instead of learning things??"

...because students are coerced into doing homework they never asked for and they have been taught for a decade+ that grades are the only thing that matters, and so they have no real choice but to optimize their participation in this bizarre social dance of pretending to learn things to participate in society?

If only people had been warning for decades that common schooling methods are inefficient and encouraging the wrong things. If only.

@barefootrambling Netherlands: pro, local hospital proactively provided accommodations (eg. private room) when I was taken in for kidney issues. Con, it's (along with ADHD) a reason to require an additional psych visit to get a driver's license.

(The implications vary by where you live)

Annual reminder: In addition to preventing virus transmission, N95 masks are great for keeping your face warm in the winter! 😷❄️

Finally being a programmer paid off, I opened a pull request to fix a bug in the scoring app for one of my board games

can this post be boosted around im trying to find more to follow in this realm and in this instance

#otherkin #punk #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtqia #leftist #leftists #queer #xenogender

re: Honestly curious philosophical musing that's not intended to be adversarial, feel free to ignore 

@malcircuit That is going to depend on the exact circumstances, and is generally a process that requires the input of the victim. Whole books have been written about repairing harm, resolving conflicts, and (social) accountability.

A better question is, why *would* punitive measures repair harm and prevent reoccurrence? As basically all evidence is against this concept, and it often has the opposite outcome.

re: Honestly curious philosophical musing that's not intended to be adversarial, feel free to ignore 

@malcircuit I'd respond to that with a philosophical counterquestion: why would the primary qualifier for something being "justice" be "experiencing pain or discomfort", rather than "repairing harm and preventing reoccurrence"?

Because that to me sounds more like revenge than like justice. Is the intention of justice to make things right and make society better, or is the intention to "get the last word in", so to say?

transphobia, harassment 

My SECOND overt transphobia ever! Dang, they're coming often now!

I'm walking down the street, minding my business, some kid, he wasn't even twenty probably gives me a weird look. Then another. Then another.

Don't judge a book by its cover, but this guy is not winning any Nobel Prizes anytime soon. He doesn't have a very... thoughtful expression. Even though he's clearly puzzled.

I don't bother, I do look... striking today, and I've been given looks before. We stop at a red light. I don't look at him because who gives a fuck.

"What's that you're wearing?", I hear. The verb "wearing" genders me as a guy.

I look at the guy "pardon me?"

"What're you wearing? Why'd you leave the house like this?"

He's still gendering me make. I repeat the verb at him in the correct gender to correct him. He repeats the incorrect verb. It goes back and forth like this two times. I smirk.

"You're a boy", he says accusingly. He's about half my age but he uses the familiar "you". It's a bit rude in Polish to address a stranger like that. Also, "boy"? Fucker, I could be your mother, lmfao.

I smile. "Nope, I'm a girl".

"You're a boy". He's very angry.

I laugh a little. "Whatever you say." The light is green. I cross the street.

"Faggot.", I hear behind me. I turn sharply and take just one step towards him. I'm a good deal bigger and taller than him.

He scurries away like the rat he is. He taunts me, implying he wants to get violent. But curiously, whenever I take one step towards him, he takes two steps back.

He keeps acting "tough". I'm losing my patience, so I calmly but menacingly invite him to show me what he's got. He moves even further away, all the way talking shit.

"You're running away that easily? That was quick", I comment and move on.

Transphobes are weak spineless bitches. So are homophobes. I'm pissed off, but also very satisfied with this encounter. Those shits are weak. Even the ones who are physically strong.

prisons, spicy take to some 

Imprisonment is a form of torture, no matter how 'humane' it is on paper, and should be treated as such from an ethical perspective.

And when you argue for imprisoning people as a form of 'justice', you are arguing for torture as a form of 'justice', with all of the implications that that has.

It's just a form of torture that's easy to rationalize if you don't want to confront those implications.

(I've figured out my own but want to see if there are any better options out there)

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Are there any established algorithms for merging multiple overlapping but gappy sequences of items into a single sequence?

@amy When this happens to me, very often it seems to be a case of "the social convention is that you do not point this out to people and confront them with it, and you have broken that social convention".

Very often they are conventions I absolutely do not subscribe to for ethical reasons...

One of weird things about being autistic is when I make observations about people and then they get creeped out or tell me it was unsettling.

Like, I'm literally commenting on something
so obvious to me that it would have felt weird not to say something.

re: politics, kind of a downer, worries, and my living situation 

@mynameistillian There's always going to be a risk, no way around that, the best you can do is to mitigate those risks upfront as much as possible. Staying where you are isn't without risks either, after all! I guess the only question really is which risk is bigger to you.

I've sometimes regretted taking risks, but most of the time they've worked out well for me, especially when I did preparation work ahead of time.

And I should note that I am saying this with an acute awareness of React having problems of its own, and being unamused by its internal complexity, and not *really* liking it.

But I've also learned not to trust promises of solutions that don't come with a clear understanding of the problem domain attached, because it usually means that someone is trying to sell you something, for money or otherwise.

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I would take criticisms of the React model a lot more seriously if those criticisms actually critized, y'know, the React model, and weren't just picking on a bunch of badly designed libraries that happen to be built on top of it, or complaining about websites that happen to use it.

The same applies to supposedly 'better alternatives' for React. I'll take those seriously once they demonstrate an actual understanding of the problem space that React tries to inhabit - because very often they are 'better' by simply jettisoning some of the design goals that inform React's design, and so they can't actually replace it.

(Inspired by, but not a subtoot of, another toot about React)

re: politics, kind of a downer, worries, and my living situation 

@mynameistillian So, I don't think that's a fool's plan, to be honest! Sure, you should do some preparation work to make sure you don't burn through your money faster than necessary (eg. staying in hotels gets expensive fast), but I don't think there's any point in waiting for perfect circumstances either. All you really need is enough 'runway' to get yourself into a better space and figure out what to do next.

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