Your child may not feel any form of attraction to other people now or ever. Your child may never feel romantic or sexual attraction to others as they grow up. Your child may fluctuate in their attraction to others, if they feel attracted at all. Your child may feel attraction to others, but in a very limited or restricted way.
This is okay. This is normal. Not everyone grows up to be what society expects us to be. Do not assume that your child will feel attraction, and make sure they understand that not feeling attracted to others is a valid option, despite the heteronormative pressure of society that says otherwise.
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@TopazRabbit Hmm, where is the ball sourced from (besides their own kits)?
After the whole Logitech "subscription mouse" junk I decided to see if there was an open hardware thumb trackball, and there is! I just built a Ploopy Thumb trackball, and the hardest part was soldering on the sensor. I even printed out my own orange buttons. I will mess with the firmware (QMK!) later this week.
Edit: link to kit: https://ploopy.co/shop/thumb-trackball-full-kit/
My point is that you are explicitly taught why you need spare capacity in an MBA so people with MBAs have no excuse for not understanding what getting rid of all the spare capacity will do.
Hey, so, heads up: the shipping packaging for the lgbtunicorns binder I got off of Amazon has the name, website, slogan “my body my rules” and “match your mind with your body” emblazoned on it.
Which, like, could be a problem for a number of people who live in circumstances where discreet packaging (and the lack of it) is a safety concern.
Update: it’s a new(?) Amazon misfeature. Upshot is, we need to tell Amazon to ship some things in packaging vs manufacturer container.
@jhulkko Thanks - it's going to take me a while to read through this, I'm currently reading the "we rewrote Mastodon" post.
So far I'm not really encountering anything new as it seems to all be about the data encapsulation rather than the decoupling of concerns and interoperability (which is the harder part I'm mainly trying to figure out), but perhaps I just haven't gotten to the right section yet :)
The design so far does seem to roughly make sense, so hopefully they also talk about the rest of the owl!
@bananas Well, that is why I'm looking for work that people have done on this :) And I'm specifically looking for something that can transparently integrate into how package management is already done, one way or another
@rtn@chaos.social I'm familiar with it (and have used some of it), but it's not really what I'm looking for in the sense that it doesn't actually solve any of the hard problems!
Sure, the modules are modular, and you *could* manually assemble it into some sort of modular data management setup. But it leaves the "how" of that undefined (especially things like relational integrity), and that is precisely the thing I am trying to work out here 🙂
@alex You've already clarified quite a lot for me, thanks :)
Would be interested in chatting more about this at some later time, when you feel more up to it!
@bananas Basically, you can split up the complexity of an application into many smaller parts by using packages, right? And then reuse those packages across projects, whenever you need the same functionality.
But the glaring issue always ends up being that this doesn't work for anything that deals with persistent state; because database structure is defined on an application level, a library can't make assumptions about it, and if it does, it can very easily conflict with something else in destructive ways.
What I'm looking for is something that allows modularization of persistently stateful systems too - for example, a "user management" library that implements login/registration/session/etc. functionality *and* internally manages the storage of user data, while still allowing you to reference "a user" from, say, an application-specific "threads" table/collection, and have that reference be stable and basically work how you'd expect from a system with relational integrity.
@alex Would carving out your own community space not help to make it easier to find likeminded people?
(Not intended to argue the point, but rather to understand where you're coming from, what your rationale is and what issues you see with that)
Hm. Has anyone done any work on modular databases, by any chance?
That is, databases which don't follow the paradigm of "a single schema for all the persistent state in your application", and which instead let different modules/packages do their own data management, but in a shared data store where data from different packages can link to each other easily.
@alex Do you mean as in, not wanting to hang around there?
Just found this website from April 2000 about installing Linux on Amigas and other similar machines, this is fascinating
hey linux people
what are some good music players for the desktop? on Windows we’d use MusicBee but everything on Linux seems to either be kind of underbaked (Rhythmbox) or the ugliest app you’ve ever seen (Clementine/Strawberry)
We’re looking for something that has an iTunes-esque layout, and we find album grid view very important
@operand Yep, entirely understandable. Thanks for your answer!
@kae_bytheocean That was probably the massive community management thread by @ifixcoinops?
PSA for folks in Colorado, south Denver (Sheridan/Englewood) area, if you went to a July 20 puppy adoption event
One of the pups tested positive for rabies and they are still trying to find everyone who went. So if that’s you or you know someone who might be looking at puppies, more details and a number to call here. https://coloradosun.com/2024/08/09/colorado-puppy-adoption-rabies/
@rune FWIW, I've definitely seen some upper-class people do this in NL. But only really upper-class people, who can't seem to tolerate a single brown-ish bit of grass.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.