Hey if you’re young, pace yourself or you’ll be spending your 30s+ never actually recovering from burnout completely.
Best case scenario you’ll take frequent breaks to try and top-up your energy but you’ll never actually get it back.
Maybe you think “I’m not going to live that long anyway” but you should try to live like you will keep living.
Or maybe you think “if I go at 500% now I’ll be able to afford the rest I need later.” but omfg no you won’t. You won’t make enough for that. You won’t.
Random polyam peeve: I DETEST the word 'throuple'. I'm in a triad.
Why the hate? The first reason is shallow. The word is ascethetically displeasing to me. It sounds more like a virus than a loving relationship. Blech.
The second reason is much more important. 'Throuple' is derived from 'couple'. This makes concept more accessible to the mainstream, but to me, it's yet another monoganormative microagression. Keep that nonsense away from my relationship.
re: French Wikipedia, queerphobia
non-queer editors often say “why is everything on these topics so personal to you? why are you bringing this fight here?”
this is why.
left unchecked, “moderate, well-meaning concerns” become “exclusions” and then “removals”.
Reminder that when someone uses a slur, it's not usually the literal meaning of the term that's the really bad part
The bad part is the implied threat that they're making by saying "I can get away with saying this and no one will stop me or help you and now you have to wonder how far I might take that"
food for thought!
for the cost of a new electric car ($30-70k) & its annual insurance & maintenance ($4-10k) one could:
Purchase an electric bike & electric cargo bike for one self
and
Purchase an electric bike for several friends or folks in need
and
Rent a vehicle or pay for train fare for a number of local vacations, and rent a vehicle for hauling as needed
and
Donate meaningfully to a climate or transportation justice organization of your choice
(This relates to the earlier incident of covid denialism but it also applies more broadly)
re: subtoot, nixos
@joepie91 gonna start calling AWS jeff bezos's basement
subtoot, nixos
Are there valid reasons to outsource the management to a third party? Yes, perhaps. Is it reasonable to basically make fun of people for exploring self-managed options? Absolutely the fuck not, what is wrong with you
subtoot, nixos
I am extremely judging the people who seem to believe that hosting things on a self-managed server is somehow irresponsible and is equivalent to 'basement hosting', compared to using IaaS services like an S3 provider.
Like, what exactly do you think that S3 provider is running on??? Treating 'cloud hosting' as some sort of magical thing that is materially different from 'a server' does not inspire confidence about your technical qualifications
“I’m a Google Cloud software engineer, and I refuse to build technology that powers genocide [and] apartheid”
https://www.dailydot.com/debug/google-protest-israel/
Watch the others in the room. The assholes who jeer and manhandle the protestors. These are your peers in the tech industry. These are the “acceptable folks” in tech. Fuck these people.
Look at their faces. They know exactly what they’re complict in. Look at their smug smiles. Dickheads each one.
#tech #google #ai #ProjectNimbus #israel #genocide #palestine
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.