@SkyFox Why not just install it from unstable, though? That's basically "master, but once the centralized builds are done".
@aphyr I'm sure that some people have some incompatible expectations at times, but that's really nothing different from any interpersonal disagreements in any community - and I've absolutely been in IRL spaces that were culturally not far removed from what I see here on fedi.
I certainly don't see "actively bring in more of the culture that consistently and sometimes violently suppresses atypical identities" as the solution to that; if anything, I would expect it to make it *worse*, because it does not tolerate weirdness.
And it's very odd to me to call eye-contact CWs a "hyper-conservative" thing - it's the exact opposite, it's about being mindful of other people's comforts and not just your own. That is not what conservatism does.
If there's a disagreement over community rules, fine. Discuss it, figure it out, resolve the conflict into something that everybody involved can live with. But don't blame it on the weirdness. Baby, bathwater, etc.
@aphyr @technomancy I really don't see how that's a "weird mix" at all. The difference is that this place much more strongly centers around queer, neurodiverse, disabled etc. folks than Twitter does - and that's where that culture comes from. I don't see any reason why that would need to be "balanced out" (ie. demarginalized).
one thing I think that might be lost on newcomers is the fact that this past week has been BANANAS for everyone who's been on the site for years, and if you feel like people are being snippy or pushy about social norms, that's probably why.
on a normal week when people talk about "hey please CW that" or "please don't spam your tweets here with a crossposter" or whatever they're more likely to do so patiently and explain the reasoning behind why we do things that way but on a day like today things are more likely to get a little snippy or terse.
don't take it personally! the old timers are trying to maintain social norms in the face of a flood of change, and they're worn out. keep that in mind if you think to yourself "hm; this place doesn't seem that friendly". give it some time to get back to normal before you bounce.
This is a recreation of a Twitter thread of my response to someone who said re: scientists moving to Mastodon: "Leaving the global community to enter a silo makes no sense."
I think this represents a common misconception about Mastodon! The entire point of federated social media is that it isn't a silo. On Twitter you are in a Twitter silo. On a Mastodon instance you can interact with anyone on ANY instance.
[thread continues :) ]
@Dee well see, *technically*, the current isn't going *through* the cable, but-
solarpunk.moe now presents...
the glitch-soc cybre.space theme !
This theme is inspired on the late cybre.space instance that many of us remember fondly.
Is it 100% perfect? No. But I will continue to tweak it as necessary.
If you have a glitch-soc instance feel free to give it a try. The theme is hosted here.
@discordiankitty@mastodon.me.uk Honestly it's less about not wanting Twitter *users* and more about not wanting Twitter *culture*.
See eg. https://social.pixie.town/@joepie91/109291270280705414 - and this is a recurring problem whenever a Twitter migration wave happens, people trying to bring the toxic mechanisms and behaviours with them.
It's very easy for an existing community to get overrun and fall apart this way...
Please remember to use content warnings generously! Including for political content - not everybody can deal with a constant stream of politics in their timeline. I promise, people will click through the CW if they're interested!
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