Sven Slootweg (soft-deprecated) @joepie91@pixie.town

@scattermoon@mastodon.social This will of course vary by where on fedi you are, but at least in my general circles I've not really seen any issues with this - there *is* a general expectation that you CW heavy/negative personal stuff, but I've also not seen people get bothered when they didn't/couldn't CW it for whatever reason.

Personally: I'm totally fine with negative stuff behind a CW. If it's not overwhelming, then it's also fine without CW. I do usually unfollow or mute people who are almost *only* negative without a CW, to avoid getting sucked into a spiral myself - that's nothing personal.

(Separately, there's an ongoing conversation about whether lived experiences of bigotry and particularly racism should be CW'ed; I don't personally think that should be *expected*.)

@leo @whatanerd That I can agree with. But I also don't feel that the *exact* failure mode is terribly relevant for whether we should want to avoid it...

@MerlinJStar@weirder.earth Wait, isn't that exactly what the term means? Or do I have the wrong definition in my head?

@x4nw @scanlime At least the anarchists are generally honest about the reason, though...

@leo @whatanerd (Also: the reason they seem out-of-place in this list is because they're being listed at the *start* of their marketing process instead of at the end, when all the consequences have already played out, like for the others. They're included specifically because of the conversation about Hachyderm right now.)

@leo @whatanerd That doesn't really change my concerns, though. The *core service* is proprietary, as is their infrastructure, which is the actual thing that constitutes their company. A separate open-source server implementation is a side project, one that may be axed at any moment, that doesn't necessarily have the same featureset, and so on.

*All* of the companies I've mentioned had similar things. High-profile FOSS projects meant to demonstrate that they were "a friend of the open-source community", except they actually weren't, and it was just marketing.

In fact, npm was at one point even entirely open-source! But later closed up their registry implementation.

Ultimately, it is about power dynamics. The exact shape of those power dynamics varies from company to company, but "for the 'real first-party' experience you are dependent on Tailscale the company and their proprietary system" is absolutely one such power imbalance.

And ultimately, no company will do *exactly* the same thing as the ones that came before it. It's never exactly identical, it's always "different". That makes it all the more important to recognize the underlying *patterns* instead.

@jtolio@hachyderm.io You're not *just* in your own bar, though. You're also interacting with other communities (more like a bar crawl), who have very different expectations - and more importantly, very different *backgrounds* and considerably less privilege.

I suspect (but correct me if I'm wrong, @catzilla) that she's not asking you to apologize; but rather that she's asking you to introspect about exactly *why* the response to Hachyderm from other communities is like this.

I *will* admit that you've been considerably more willing to listen than the other reply guys on my post, which is good - but I do also agree that there's a power imbalance that you don't quite seem to understand yet, and that's really important to introspect on more.

@whatanerd Yep. And even just within tech, there are multiple obvious examples:
- Cloudflare can now intercept and spy on half the traffic on the internet because they got popular by being a "nice, nerd-friendly" company
- npm Inc., the notoriously irresponsible and unaccountable steward of the npm registry, now part of Microsoft, gained their power over the ecosystem by being a "nice, community-oriented" company
- GitHub, which made the entire FOSS world dependent on a completely proprietary and centralized system by being a "nice, FOSS-friendly" company
- Plus all the many other unethical tech companies and startups that have been trying to lure in nerds and FOSS folks with shiny blog posts to convince them they're "one of them"
- ... and, in fact, Tailscale (which is now on Hachyderm) is doing the exact same thing, rapidly embedding its proprietary system into the infrastructure of many FOSS projects by being a "nice company"

@untitaker@hachyderm.io These are the consequences of inviting corporations onto your platform, like it or not. I am not interested in a debate about this. This was a heads-up so people have a chance to move before defederation inevitably occurs.

@reto@pleroma.labrat.space Great for you. I don't really care. I am not here to have a discussion about the relative merits of capitalism, and this was a heads-up, not an invitation for debate.

@reto@pleroma.labrat.space See here: https://social.pixie.town/@joepie91/109360136040004274