@zkat Perhaps it's because of your name? 😅
Do you remember Switter? Should we? It became the 3rd biggest Mastodon instance in the fediverse and a lifesaving refuge for sex workers around the world. It was shut down despite much effort against harmful anti-sex and anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation and policy, which remains a threat over many of us.
For more info:
https://switter.at/
Draadje over executive dysfunction
nou, verdomme. nu is het dus bedtijd, en heb ik niet gedaan wat ik van plan was.
..en dat was natuurlijk het punt. executive dysfunction betekent voor mij dat ik alle mogelijkheid heb iets te doen, iets dat ik leuk vindt of een klusje of een mailtje beantwoorden, het kan alles zijn. het is niet overwhelming of ingewikkeld, ik heb de tijd, maar ik -doe- het gewoon niet. ik zit soms letterlijk op de bank te denken 'ik moet zo ff vegen', zonder op te staan en te gaan vegen.
dit is voor mij echt een van de irritantste dingen van #ADHD.
het kan zo klote voelen om de hele dag geen fuck gedaan te krijgen. nutteloos, kansloos, faalhaas.
lui.
nou, goed, dat wou ik dus eens in een draadje laten zien. elk moment dat ik er vandaag een toot over schreef was een moment dat ik alle mogelijkheid had te doen wat ik wilde doen. maar ik deed het niet.
dus, heb je een adhd'er in je buurt, en ben je teringgefrustreerd dat ie de simpelste dingen gewoon niet doet? troost je: die adhd'er is zéker zo gefrustreerd met zichzelf.
ga die alsjeblieft niet lui noemen, of er anderszins negatief over doen, dat doet die zelf al genoeg.
more musings on the influx
As journalists and new academics join the fediverse: I'm excited you're here! The fediverse has a lot of potential. But it is far, far from perfect.
Bring your critical energy to make this place more just -- for marginalized people, particularly BIPOC.
Don't bring your critical energy to make it more like Twitter.
@root I mean, isn't that basically what we're doing by posting corporately unpalatable queer shit
@ridt@infosec.exchange Hey, just a heads-up: please try to add captions to your images, so that they're also accessible to the many blind and visually-impaired users on here.
For pictures a few words is usually enough, and for text posts like this, you can click the OCR button in the 'edit image' window while writing your toot, and it'll automatically extract the text.
ok ok, another thing.
"Where are my quote tweets/toots?"
They don't exist here. They're very often used to harass, dogpile, and otherwise cause a bad time for folk. If you want to engage with a toot, reply! If you want others to see it, boost it!
Trust me, it's very freeing to know you can post your personal update without being concerned some arsecandle is going to QT it saying "haha look at this"
meta; capitalism (add.)
Also, just because I remember a post that was like “but no brands means no indie artists!”
Obviously, indie artists are okay. Y’all are amazing. Art is inherently anti-capitalist, and even if you do commissions, it is a much more wholesome and worthwhile endeavor than any modern for-profit company or brand.
When I say “brand”, I mean Starbucks. I mean McDonald’s. I mean those types of brands. Those brands can burn to the fucking ground.
meta; capitalism
Seeing mainstream business media start talking about Mastodon is making me feel like we’re at a tipping point.
Do not let brands and companies into Mastodon except non-profits or indie focused companies like itch.io. If you find one, block them immediately. Do not engage. Alternatively… engage with the most messed up shit ever like furries have been doing for ages.
Make the Fediverse absolutely un-marketable. We cannot let our space be exploited by capitalism.
fediverse, beginner's guide
@masukomi It's a tricky one. My hope in linking to joinmastodon (with its categories) is that it'll get people close enough to a community they care about, without spending much energy on picking a precise instance - and that they'll "graduate" to a more exact choice later on.
I honestly just don't know whether that'll work, but I've seen *a lot* of people bounce off on analysis paralysis, so provisionally I'm ranking "easy choice" slightly higher in importance than "accurate choice"...
DIY instance running meta
@tillianisafox Honestly, a big part of the operational costs for major tech companies has absolutely nothing to do with the service they're supposedly providing - it goes to absurdly complex marketing and analytics systems, that just straight-up aren't necessary if you're not a corporation.
And from the remaining costs, many costs are labour costs (that volunteer-run stuff doesn't really have), not hosting costs; hosting stuff on modern hardware is actually pretty cheap, and as long as the software is moderately efficient, you don't need a lot of hardware at all!
Every other space on the internet is constantly filled with fury at the outrage of the day
The Scholar Social Local Timeline is not the place for that; current events are explicitly "off topic" for the Local Timeline
This is so that we all have just one (1) place online that isn't just for doomscrolling
So right now, that means that if you want to talk about the US elections and you're on Scholar, use Unlisted privacy setting, or at least a CW
re: fediverse, beginner's guide
@polyfloyd Yep, understandable - with the massive sudden influx of new people, it's proving quite difficult for the existing community to 'onboard' people culturally speaking...
@f0x Symlinks?
@whreq Yep, dat is mij de laatste dagen ook steeds duidelijker geworden.
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
- No alt text (request) = no boost.
- Boosts OK for all boostable posts.
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- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
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Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.