Healthcare workers - please don’t call a patient “sweetie” “baby” “cutie” or any similar adjective. It’s inappropriate.
Treat female presenting patients the same way you would treat male ones.
If you’re concerned about abuse - ask in private AFTER patient is stabilized.
recently shared an example of a nurse calling me “sweetie” and asking if I was fighting with my boyfriend.
I had lost consciousness, had a heart rate of 180 and NO signs of abuse. I was also alone.
I needed an immediate EKG & stabilization
It was inappropriate and made me question the quality of care I would receive.
That said - HCWs play a vital role in protecting victims of abuse.
I have absolutely no issue with asking a patient if they’re being hurt, in danger etc.
believe it should be after emergent issue has been treated - and you shouldn’t use patronizing language while doing it.
The nurse treating me wasn’t concerned about abuse. She was downplaying my condition & gaslighting me.
Something disabled patients deal with too often.
The same goes for patients requesting their HCWs mask (or showing up in a mask themselves).
Don’t say “aww are you scared about Covid? Anxious about getting sick?”
Just put on a mask. It won’t harm you. It shows you understand the science & value patient safety.
I’m fed up with the ableist, misogynistic and patriarchal attitudes we have to deal with to access life saving care.
I will continue to share these stories in the hopes they help people think differently about how they treat patients. We deserve better.
For more on the misogynistic and patriarchal attitudes I’ve faced trying to access healthcare - I wrote two articles about my reproductive struggles. From being told pregnancy would likely kill me but I “might meet a man who wants kids”… to needing an emergency hysterectomy and having a post operative complication ignored until a MAN demanded they run tests. It’s bleak … but these aren’t isolated incidents. Ask almost any woman and she will have stories of her own.
“You might meet a man who wants kids” article: https://www.disabledginger.com/p/pregnancy-will-likely-kill-you-but
Post hysterectomy complication article: https://www.disabledginger.com/p/my-most-dangerous-er-experience-and?utm_campaign=post
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Witchy thoughts, mentions of substances, poetry?
We are the witch at the end of the road that the desperate seek, on the forests edge we cut the herbs to dry and become ingredients for what we brew.
we have been our own inquisition to aquire the knowledge when the instincts have all been there, buried in the depths for us to salvage.
whether it's gin or datura seed, it is often not quite what the desperate need.
so we listen and we see, to hopefully set all of us free.
Good ideas for people about to lose their jobs at 23 And Me
If you're about to lose your job at 23 And Me anyway now that the company is dying and selling off its assets
Have you considered
Intentional corporate sabotage on your way out?
Do a little $ sudo rm -rdf /*
On a couple servers with customer data that's about to be sold
Depending on what absolute snake of a buyer is on the way, you might even save some lives
Bonus myth, re: Things that "everybody knows" that are wrong (has references to crimes)
Bonus round!
THE LORD OF THE FLIES
This novel featured a group of kids, alone on an island after a plane crash, regressing into conflict and violence, and is often named as a cautionary tale of how things will immediately fall apart when there is no law and order.
Unfortunately, that story is entirely made-up nonsense. A similar incident actually happened in 1966, where a couple of kids from (near) Tonga stranded on the island 'Ata, only being rescued 15 months later.
Contrary to the story in Lord of the Flies, they successfully governed themselves, developed ways to resolve conflicts among themselves, kept themselves healthy even despite injury, and survived the experience.
posts about feelings sometimes
gender egoist
anti-essentialist
anarchist weirdo
neuroqueer
is an identity crisis
healthn't
many
please tell me things directly instead of passively if possible