Also, more generally... if you see me subtooting someone and are wondering if it's about you: it's probably not.
I make a point of telling people when I have a problem with their behaviour, because I can't expect them to change it if I never tell them what's wrong.
If I subtoot about it, either it's *in addition to* doing so (and if it were about you, you'd already know *with certainty*) or it's about someone I've never spoken to personally (and so it's almost certainly some public figure and not you).
You know how so often in 80s and 90s “Tech nightmare” movies there was the trope of the old woman who started it all and is now living in some small town in the mountains tending flowers?
And she would say shit like “they took our beautiful creation and turned in into something monstrous, so now I create beauty here. Flowers that can’t be twisted for money and power.”
Yeah I never really realized how much I identified with that trope until I left software. I have the garden in a small mountain town and everything.
Just had an interesting interaction with my children where it became clear that “transition” was a word that they did not understand.
Using simplified language, I tried to explain that it was the word for what I did because I was a boy and became a girl.
They were literally confused, because in their mind, I was always a girl.
“Why do you need a word for changing clothes or taking medicine? That’s just things people do!”
Their perspective sort of blows my mind. I always thought my transition was a huge deal. But it’s like a non-event to them. They didn’t even see it.
😭🙀
subtoot, venting (2)
(Also, for the RSD folks: if you are reading this, then this is not about you, because you're not blocked.)
@awoo more entities should defy societal norms when possible. for fun
some people are desperate to be kind to their enemies because having enemies sucks, which is why you must transform them rather than applaud them. nothing but death or a profound reeducation will place love in fascist hearts and neither of those things goes “i gotta hand it to race scientists”
please note that the talk Building a Robot Visor: How and Why has been rescheduled to 14:00 - 14:25 on Saturday, 2025-08-09. see those ones there!
please also make sure to check the other talks one is planning to attend, in case their schedule changed too.
@joepie91 If they setup an 'migrate to SteamOS.exe' the same way Ubuntu used to offer an installer from Windows, but better, that would be huge for Linux adoption. Suddenly everybody would know what the KDE Plasma desktop is, etc...
This practice has been obsoleted, by the way, because people consistently kept fucking them up because it turns out that process synchronization is Very Hard To Get Right
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Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.