Also, more generally... if you see me subtooting someone and are wondering if it's about you: it's probably not.

I make a point of telling people when I have a problem with their behaviour, because I can't expect them to change it if I never tell them what's wrong.

If I subtoot about it, either it's *in addition to* doing so (and if it were about you, you'd already know *with certainty*) or it's about someone I've never spoken to personally (and so it's almost certainly some public figure and not you).