Sven Slootweg @joepie91@pixie.town

I think part of the reason so many trans women are uncomfortable being dommes is because being dominant is often treated as something that is antithetical to being cute. You hear “If you’re surrounded by stuffies then clearly you want someone to take charge” or “if you use :3 I’m going to assume you want to get bent over and railed” or “real dommes wear intimidating outfits, not cute colors.”

And I’m here to tell you: Fuck all of that.

I’m a domme. I sleep in a bed of stuffies. I once broke a riding crop across someone’s back. I use :3. I sometimes get a consenting person so deep in hypnosis she’s literally drooling on herself. I wear pastels when I’m in the mood. I have the will and skill to absolutely leave a partner a whimpering, quivering mess barely able to speak.

You can be cute and dominant, you can be soft and in control, you can be a caring and a sadist.

So if you want to be the domme, don’t think that means you have to sacrifice being cute. Embrace both. Wear pastels as you lock someone onto a St. Andrew’s cross, give a sub one of your stuffies. Go :3 as you make someone scream.

As long as you have consent and are following proper safety and aftercare, find the style that works for you.

Banning swearing in Formula One could be bad for drivers – a linguist explains

https://theconversation.com/banning-swearing-in-formula-one-could-be-bad-for-drivers-a-linguist-explains-251424

#swearing #profanity #linguistics #F1 #racing #motorsport #FormulaOne #censorship

When your human won't buy you a running wheel, so you improvise

#Caturday

This is my favorite photo for demonstrating the impact of #LightPollution on physiology. The image was taken by shows a soybean field illuminated by a badly directed streetlight.

What's happening here is that soybeans are supposed to grow leaves in the early part of summer, and as nights get longer, they should make #soybeans and turn brown. In the green area, the plants don't understand what time of year it is, and it's therefore a complete loss for the farmer.

The reason I love the photo so much is because you can see the shadow of the light mast on the field.

The photo was taken by Dwaine Eddie McGriff & Ben Tankersley, and originally posted to Xitter (the post no longer exists).

The problem could be entirely solved by using a streetlight with strong backlight shielding (i.e. shining the light only on the roadway).

Can anyone put me in touch with a lawyer who really understands the European Accessibility Act (EAA)? I have a question I could use an opinion on - and happy to pay for the time. Thanks.

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american leftists at least know their country is shit and geopolitically evil but most europeans have zero self awareness and are completely delusional about it

bitch, europe started colonialism and still haven't stopped doing it, they're not the "good guys"

The EU is paying a fortune for broken commercial software, criticizes Michiel Leenaars of the Dutch NLnet Foundation in an interview with netzpolitik.org. Together with his team, he supports open-source, free solutions — funded by the EU. But that could soon come to an end.

https://netzpolitik.org/2025/open-source-funding-on-the-brink-delivering-whats-needed-to-make-europe-sovereign/

Voorjaar in de tuin! Naast de krokusjes zag ik nu ook de eerste narcisknopjes. De sneeuwklokjes zijn zo goed als uitgebloeid, maar mijn "regenpijpplantje" zit vol in de knopjes!
#lente #voorjaar #Bloomscrolling

so you know that thing where USB A plugs sometimes fit into ethernet ports, depending on tolerances of the exact plug and receptable involved?

TIL that a USB C plug also fits perfectly in an SD card slot

Wat leuk! @Trouw schrijft over het eenvoudige initiatief tegen eenzaamheid in een HEMA-filiaal: Bij het restaurant staat “een bord, met daarnaast een bak vol badeendjes: 'In je eendje? Zet een eendje op tafel als je openstaat voor een gesprek of contact met andere bezoekers van ons restaurant.'”

Google survey you CANNOT be asking this without clarifying which you mean

Hoe veel winst maakt de A2 ondertussen?

https://www.volkskrant.nl/economie/treinkaartjes-ns-dreigen-weer-duurder-te-worden-ondanks-recente-6-verhoging~b36cefbf/

I wrote a postmortem of the University of Washington harassment investigation. I don’t get into details but I do explain my perspective and name the men involved, plus some lessons learned at the end. https://irenezhang.net/blog/2025/03/04/uw-harassment.html