meta, positive, tangentially related to bluesky
I've said many times before that we don't actually need to worry about 'marketing' things like Mastodon or Matrix, we just need to make it good, and then people will organically and sustainably discover it and stick around. That we don't need to play the Silicon Valley game of "making a big splash and growing massively" because that only benefits startups, not community networks, we have different goals and costs.
And the situation with Bluesky is a really good example of this in action. Look at the amount of people on here who were using Bluesky, and with the latest events went "actually this sucks, huh, I guess I'm going back to fedi".
*That* is what I'm talking about. Notice how quickly people realized the problems with Bluesky. And how quickly they returned to fedi! *This* is how you grow a community network sustainably. You don't need or want to be the 'hot new thing' that's popular for a month and then drops off. You just need to be the reliable rock in a stormy ocean and people will slowly accumulate over the years and rarely or never leave.
Focus on making fedi better and better. Don't waste your energy and goodwill trying to play a corporation's game on a shoestring budget.
(And one of the most important ways right now to make fedi better is to improve moderation tooling and actually listen to marginalized folks.)
mechanical keyboardists first went wrong when they decided the model M was the best keyboard ever made and the new ones ""don't count"
but the second way they went wrong is by calling a full keyboard "100%", so they can make smaller ones and call them 60% or 40%. That's wrong. They're going in the wrong direction
personal, body, 🥴 (2), medication
The 'easy' answer to this question is that one of my medications (due to anemia) is epo, the stuff that's also used by eg. cyclists as doping. So clearly that's the explanation, right?
Except I've been using that for almost two years by this point, and I wasn't able to pull myself up before during those two years...
personal, body, 🥴
So I am apparently somehow suddenly able to pull myself up by just my arms, on a pull-up bar, almost effortlessly.
I was only barely able to do this before my kidney disease treatment, and haven't been able to do it at all since. But now it's effortless. I have barely done any exercise in that time.
What?
@joepie91 I would like to know where my nearest bomb shelter is, and who is responsible for dealing with holes in dikes. As long as the govt has no such lists for me, I don't take this shit seriously.
This stuff is meant to prepare folks for higher military spending. And it's working. 😑
One of the many ways in which I think "healthy community moderation" is not really being taken seriously by anyone: the canonical way to design a "you are banned" screen is to simply tell people they are banned without any meaningful information, explanation, option for appeal, nothing.
An actually well-considered ban screen might look something more like: "You have been banned from <thing> for <reason>. You can click this link to learn more about why we do not accept this sort of behaviour in our community, where you will also find a guide on different, healthier ways to deal with situations like this. Once you feel that you've understood the problem and can commit to doing better in the future, this (link) is where you can find the appeal instructions and the conditions for approval."
But I have literally never seen a single social platform, game, or anything else with a screen that even comes close to that.
https://www.jennyboot.nl/ode-black-girl-with-pearl/
This photo is a beautiful riff on 'Girl with a Pearl Earring' by Johannes Vermeer. #art
The most essential step in keeping a #journal is simply to write the date each day. It's OK if you don't write anything else. Doing just that says a lot.
Though, often with the date written you can write a bit more. Or draw something.
I used to keep journals for all of my projects but fell out of doing it in my 30s. I've gotten back into it recently and I'm shocked at how powerful of a tool it is to keep focus from one day to the next. To set and reach goals. To process emotions and ideas.
This is extremely cool: https://www.keacher.com/xmas24/
It's a PCB-based 'christmas card' with lights, except it has no battery and pulls energy from radio waves in the air, and you can both power and control it by eg. holding it next to your phone.
From what I understand, the control of the lights doesn't use any actual data connection or pairing, instead the page encodes a modulated signal directly on 2.4GHz by opening a websocket and sending / not sending data in patterns, that the card then extracts and reads!
where are like all the south asian western diaspora trans-femmes who had their gender and sexuality discovery stunted by a mix of garbage media representation and toxic parenting from asian traditions?
like statistically I can't be the only one, there must be others in my situation? no? or am I truly uniquely messed up in this regard?
I feel like I'm screaming into a void sometimes~
So basically if you're vegan, remember to check the label on your margarine! It might be much closer to butter than you realize!
practically complete extinction of an ethnic group, russia, war in ukraine
just received news that one of the ppl who died in the invasion against ukraine was Ivan Taigamyr, who belongs to the Kerek people, who are one of the Indigenous nations that live on the territory of so called "russia".
There are only 23 Kerek people left.
None speak the Kerek language fluently.
i read that on the wiki page for Kerek people and my heart just sank.
practically complete extinction of an ethnic group, russia, war in ukraine
this fascist machine, and its actions in ukraine, does not only threaten ukrainians with extinction, but also destroys indigenous, nonwhite and minority nations in russia by conscripting people who belong to them disproportionately, leaving them to die.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.