When you become disabled - everyone will start suggesting fixes to you. People can’t comprehend the chronic nature of chronic illness.
Trying to accept that your life is forever changed is made harder by those constantly suggesting a magic cure will get you “back to before”.
When tempted to ask “have you tried yoga?” Please don’t. Take a breath. Realize we’re grieving the loss of our old life & body & trying to learn acceptance. You’re hindering that important process by making it seem like there’s a quick & easy fix.
Sit with us in our grief. Don’t try and fix us.
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Did you know that at one point during chattel slavery, enslaved Africans who tried to run away were diagnosed with "drapetomania"
Because a Black person who wanted to get free was clearly sick in the head
Now think about how often Black activists today are also portrayed as being some kind of unhinged
And that's just one example of the afterlife of slavery............ Orlando Jones firing is just another
Factory tour of an LED factory: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TwpbDuHWXjs (CW: flashing lights at some points)
Came across "ethically sourced Lena image" recently https://mortenhannemose.github.io/lena/ and found an excuse to make use of it in a test today 😁
dental hygiene, advice wanted
I'm looking for a couple things
1. A good place to get unflavored charcoal toothpaste, both with and without fluoride
2. Something to help me brush under and floss around the retainers that are permanently bonded to the back of my front bottom teeth
Can someone point me in the right direction?
This is *particularly* useful for catching cases where a company does something that could *technically* be defended as accomplishing the stated purpose, but it is deliberately inefficient to serve an ulterior motive.
It catches it because even a defensible action would be very far from the optimal solution, but that only becomes visible if you start reasoning from the optimal solution instead of the other way around.
Handy way to determine if some behaviour from a company is deliberately malicious or not, while minimizing personal bias:
Think of what they would optimally do if they *were* malicious, and of what they would do if they *weren't* malicious and genuinely had the claimed intentions.
Whatever they are actually doing, which of the two answers is it closer to?
Datalek bij de politie, je weet wel, die organisatie waar straks miljoenen false positives met privé foto's naar toe gaan, want kinderporno. ofzo.
just stop oil, court case
"The pair of you came within the thickness of a pane of glass of irreparably damaging or even destroying this priceless treasure"
So what you're saying, Mr. Judge, if I am getting this correctly, is that... there was no damage, as was expected? Yes?
Funny how a bit of framing changes the implied meaning, isn't it?
Wow. Got a letter from the landlord; they are doing the scheduled window frame repainting in the block now, but they've received complaints from some residents that the new color is unpleasant. So they're changing the color to a more neutral color in the middle of the painting round, and repainting them in gray instead???
What is this, a landlord listening to feedback?!
One really cool thing that they told me, was that apparently "repair over replacement" is their standard policy; they do sell new machines, but only if they can't repair the old one within a reasonable cost.
I assume that's also why they have the trade-in policy where if you try a repair, and it ends up unfixable, they will apply the repair costs as a discount if you buy a new machine from them. As that makes repairs low-risk for the customer, and presumably helps them with customer retention at the same time.
Update: repeat visit from another tech today because even with the fixed shock dampeners, it still made more noise than it should (albeit less now); after a lengthy investigation of a really-not-maintenance-friendly machine (welded front panel...) it turned out that one of the front concrete counterweights had shaken loose.
This was very annoying to figure out, because, well, the front panel was welded - they ended up asking in the repair tech group chat whether anyone had any ideas, and someone came up with the idea of concrete block tightening, and shared that on these machines you can remove the rubber seal and tilt back the machine, and then stick a hand inbetween panel and drum to get at the front blocks.
Took them a bit over an hour to diagnose, repair, and run a test cycle to confirm. Total cost was... 0 EUR, because it apparently fell under the warranty for their previous repair, being the same issue within the limit of 2 months. Awesome.
spicy security take, 2FA
The common understanding of "two-factor authentication" (something you know and something you have) is terrible, because it relies on classification that is really hard to do. Do you *have* a 2FA app or do you *know the key* to a 2FA app?
A much better model is "a factor is a separate environment that would need to be compromised independently", because it can be reasoned about and directly reflects the actual thing that needs to happen to bypass it.
This means that a 2FA app on a phone and a password manager on a PC are two factors; two devices that need to be separately compromised. A 2FA utility *in* the password manager is *not* two factors, because compromising the computer is enough to bypass both. Biometric+password *is* two factors, because compromising the computer does not get you biometric data, unless it's actively stored on there.
And yes, this is something that non-security-specialized folks can understand too, if you use slightly different wording ("hack two different devices instead of one" for example).
(They also said something to the effect of "we welcome the presence of new providers, as long as they have a sound business plan", which suggests that they are very well aware of what shit this company was trying to pull)
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.