Optimisation for convenience brings out all the worst aspects of humanity.
We need to stop pretending reckless, anti-social, abusive tech use is some kind of aberration that only BadGuys™️ do, and come to terms with the fact that our increased ability to act / interact without thinking things through makes it harder for ALL of us to be the best versions of ourselves that we can be
@puf Here's some advice I find to be good on "how exactly to address bigotry in your friends group," which might be interesting to others too. https://captainawkward.com/2021/01/11/1308-how-do-i-deal-with-my-edgelord-friend/
if you consider all people as being capable of being more thoughtful and more caring, as i do, then there needs to space and accommodation for people at all levels of knowledge, understanding, experience and interest in supporting marginalised people.
from my experience, these spaces with accommodations for those learning will not necessarily be a restful or pleasant environment for the marginalised people themselves.
moreover, when you believe people have the capability to improve themselves, it's a disservice to them and their growth if you condone their thoughtless or hurtful behaviour. there absolutely should be consequences for patterns of uncaring behaviour in order to protect the marginalised people in the space, and also because the transgressors should feel some incentive to improve.
it is ridiculous to believe that all social spaces can and should be mixed together into one large social space, even assuming a certain level of good will and a well-meaning sentiment by the people in the space.
i don't know who needs to hear this, but if you don't feel comfortable in any gender, you don't have to have one. #agender #gendervoid
(i don't feel up to posting a selfie today)
Unity: We need more funding for engine development, therefore we will unilaterally increase fees and start charging per installation, or you can be exempt from that if you lock yourself into our advertising platform, and it's not like you can really switch to a competitor anyway
Godot: We need more funding for engine development, therefore we will cut out the donation processing middleman so that we get to keep more of your contribution, and do an additional funding drive for those who can afford it, but don't worry if you can't contribute!
I don't know, but if I were a game developer, I'd certainly be developing some Opinions around engine choices and sustainability right about now
re: meta politics grumbling
Relatedly: Voting is one thing. But *why* would you spend a ton of time and energy on debating electoral politics? Isn't the point of electoral politics to outsource it to politicians so that you don't need to constantly concern yourself with it?
So, do that - and spend the remaining time and energy on working with others on radical, grassroots politics that actually stand a chance of materially improving the situation for marginalized folks.
You'll get a lot more results out of your time and energy that way, I promise.
Een korte reportage uit mijn regio over een bijzondere man.
https://www.rodi.nl/alkmaar/nieuws/356281/de-goedlachse-straatheld-van-de-regio
Fun fact about Microsoft #Windows: if you type Ctrl-Shift-Alt-Win-L, LinkedIn will open in your default browser. This is an OS hotkey that cannot be turned off.
I know this reads like a joke but it isn't.
re: meta politics grumbling
Like, electoral politics are essentially sportsball for people who don't actually like sports. All the same mechanics of rallying around a 'team' with little substance behind it.
Electoral politics may cause some change, because of its current positioning in society as a center of power, but it sure as hell is not and never has been the driver of social change. It certainly does not protect vulnerable folks.
meta politics grumbling
You don't necessarily need to agree with everything that radical folks do, but if every single one of your 'political' posts is strictly about electoral politics and you never bother to look into or talk about radical politics at all...
Well, let's just say that it couldn't be clearer that politics is just a game to you and you cannot be trusted with the well-being of marginalized folks, regardless of whether you claim to be an ally
this is literally shocking: https://www.gamedeveloper.com/business/unity-to-start-charging-fee-pegged-to-game-installs
unity has been going the adobe route for a long time, but now they've really jumped the shark.
meta, blocklists
A way in which mechanically shared blocklists could *reduce* incorrect listings (if implemented correctly): retractions can propagate or at least notify automatically, rather than having to manually distribute updated information and hope that it reaches everyone who originally blocked.
(Not just for cases where the block recommendation turned out to be a mistake, but more importantly for instances that were correctly blocked but have cleaned up their act over time)
It can be useful to get people who are not doctors to write reports about how an illness or disability has affected somebody when applying for disability payments in lots of countries
This document is from the US but the questions could give ideas about areas people in other countries could write about when writing such a report
https://www.ssa.gov/forms/ssa-3380.pdf
#chronicillness @chronicillness #Spoonies @spoonies #Disabled @disability @mecfs #MEcfs #CFS #PwME @longcovid
#LongCovid #PwLC #postcovid
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grim 9/11 fact i just found out, ACAB always and forever
121 firefighters died in the collapse of the second tower. police helicopters circling above noticed that the steel support beams were on the verge of collapse and radioed it back to the cops in charge of the response that everyone should be evacuated because the tower was gonna just give out
and those cops never told the firefighters because cops hate firefighters.
A fucking CAB
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.