If you're an instance admin, would you be happy to opt in to a 'list of trusted instances for people new to fedi who need a safe instance' that asks you;
- Are there BIPOC/queer/disabled/neurodivergent people on your mod team
- Do you maintain a block list, either importing from a trusted source and/or actively monitoring fediblock
- Do you proactively moderate
- Do you defederate from instances that don't moderate hate speech
- Do your rules prioritise safety of marginalised folk
indieweb, rant
I honestly think the indieweb circles still have a *lot* of work left to do, and a lot of introspection at their own ranks to carry out, before I can take them seriously.
As it stands, it consists of way too many people who are speaking from a privileged position, or actively inviting or cooperating with bad actors (eg. corporations).
It's all big words about independence and personal websites, but not enough words about how we can make all of that actually accessible to a diverse set of marginalized folks for whom "setting up a website" isn't something they grew up with.
And meanwhile there's plenty of corporate sponsorships, spotlights of commercial ventures, and so on. It sure doesn't feel like the "web for the people" that it tries to present itself as.
Indieweb folks should start centering marginalized folks (and that doesn't just mean "women" either!) and talking about how to solve the *difficult* problems of accessibility on an independent web.
And crucially: more marginalized folks speaking, and less white tech dudes speaking *for* them.
(This is not a criticism of any one particular incident or person; it's a long-standing 'background frustration' that seems to get reconfirmed every time I run into indieweb stuff.)
These systems built by search engine giants can only generate correct answers to mainstream topics because they have enough data samples for those.
Which means they're essentially just a search engine that is capable of calling you slurs and always gives a wrong answer instead of saying "I don't know".
They've built a worse, more expensive search engine.
Bluesky
I'm going to put this here now so I can say "I told you so" later, but from seeing #Bluesky's privacy policy stuff today it totes only exists as a freeze peach dataset to train AI and have the harvested data sold off to whoever wants it when it eventually tanks and the social media mask falls off of it. I think this also somewhat explains the completely bizarre labels feature so buyers can filter stuff out that's too hot for them easily. That's where they're planning on making their money
please do realize there isn't a single thing online with any money in it that can't die the same way twitter did, the same way waypoint did, the same way everything does
if it has a billionaire's greedy fingers in it, it can and will die at their whim
we are in the looting phase of collapse and the only thing keeping whatever You love off the serving tray is that they haven't noticed it yet
Keyboard, rubbish postage
OK, but: who ships a keyboard by, essentially, wrapping a single layer of cardboard round it, plugging up the open ends with card flaps each held on by a single piece of tape (meaning, yes, it's only connected on one side), and with the only padding being a piece of brown paper?
I'm lucky the only damage was a single missing keycap, which presumably fell out through the massive gaps between the tube-"box" and the flaps. On the plus side, it was super easy to get it out: I didn't even need to undo the tape, just pull one of the flaps out of the way. 😂
grumbly, software dev
I think I'm just not going to post any TWIM updates about my homeserver project until it's complete enough to federate and be real-world-usable, because it'd 100% result in people harassing me over using JS - maybe if there's a working implementation right in front of them, it'll be enough to inhibit that sort of commentary... I hope
"A social network is about the feature's you don't implement" - @nasser #causalislands
Sort of meta, more just thinking out loud
Being an admin and mod of an instance absolutely requires the ability to step back when you get heated to assess the situation. Recognizing when you are in the wrong, taking responsibility when something messes up on the server or if your instance is becoming a problem in the wider community, and sometimes making hard decisions. You will never stop really feeling the urge to just keep giving chances or ignore problems because you do not want to start drama.
Our instance is not large, but I have noticed that we need to do the above things even more as we get more members and attention.
When I see people gunning to run a large instance, I have to wonder if they have internalized that. Sometimes they do. But a lot of times they do not.
If you run a big instance, you will eventually have to make a decision on whether to suspend your peers because they have been harassing people in ways that you are ignorant about.
You will eventually have to start tanking heat because you said something foolish or ill advised.
You will have to have awkward and uncomfortable conversations with your members sometimes, even they are your friends.
You are going to have to accept that you are not going to please everyone, and some instances will just not trust you.
You are going to have to decouple federation and unlimited access in your mind.
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