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I designed my own rainbow star tree topper 🌈
And if you have access to a 3D printer and want to put it to use, I’ve shared 6 things you can 3D print for Christmas!

youtube.com/watch?v=D-ZuGpuFYs

I have been hosting and maintaining a fedi server with 1-2 users and a couple years ago one with 10+ users for about two years now, and had accounts on other servers before that and here are some thoughts I couldn't really put into words yet until now. Some good, some bad so here we go:

Fragmentation is still a problem. Both by technology and by admin moderation. Even with very liberal settings and not being blocked by anyone I find myself having 10 tabs open with different instances at any given time just to get the "full picture" of a conversation. Sometimes not even that is enough, and your instance sees posts that not even the origin instance is displaying and so on. Lately, a lot of instances outright block viewing a post on their instance unless you're logged in. It's not a dealbreaker though and I understand that it will always be a problem due to Fedi's design.

To block or not to block an instance? By far the biggest dilemma when running an instance yourself. Sure if a server is entirely dedicated towards illegal things, the answer is very simple. But most of them are not as simple. Most of the time only a handful of people on an instance are terrible people. Should you just block them on your profile but then leave your other users on your instance to fend for themselves? Do you block the entire instance, cutting off communications with people you know?
No matter what your stance on moderation is, moderating the fediverse is Sisyphean labor and you will never be finished. I understand that many take more drastic measures as a result of that like disabling the federated timeline, publicly accessible posts and so on.

Fedi not having good post discovery is a blessing in disguise. Every other social media platform is, always was or has become a ragebait hellscape but Fedi is not.

The people on here are very cool! :BlobCat_Heart:

My hot take is that Fedi will remain stagnant regarding user growth but that's okay. The other platforms have proven that more people does not lead to a better and more healthy experience for it's users. If anything I think Fedi would collapse if it would get the same userbase and attention as the other sites, even if just for mostly technical and regulatory reasons.

But in the end I still love Fedi and the many awesome people I meet on here. If this ship ever goes down you will likely not find me on X Threads or whatever else will try to squeeze out thousands of hours of my life with rage, hatred and bait. I love Fedi and I'm glad that it will be my last social media.

It’s been two weeks since Assad fell but my friend Wafa Moustafa is among the tens of thousands of Syrians still searching for their loved ones.

She is looking for her father Ali Moustafa.

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#Syria

You might remember the recent reconstruction of Eindhoven Centraal, finished in 2018. Yeah, no. A new reconstruction for Eindhoven Centraal has been announced, thanks to the fund to make Eindhoven grow to 400.000 inhabitants.

Two new railway platforms. A new underground bus station. Much nicer rear entrance. The impression even shows the monumental platform roof is going to be widened for both new platforms. They will also build a fly-over on the east side, so that trains coming from Weert are no longer bothered by trains going to Venlo.

prorail.nl/nieuws/vernieuwde-o

Does anyone in Berlin need a washing machine? :boost_requested:

It's a Siemens E 14-4M, and it's free if you can move it (4th floor, no elevator).

It needs to be gone by tomorrow afternoon

this post brought to you, by me, who knows the OSM ISP has a network failure and still took about 10 minutes to realise why all the uploads from mobile editing apps weren't working

#OpenStreetMap

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How do dog gangs make peace? 

With a treatie

Dutch public broadcaster has a video about how Dutch people never talk to strangers anymore. And here I am left wondering how it is that I, autistic introvert, ended up being apparently one of the few people who strikes up conversations with strangers

“I saw on the news there is some kind of kerfuffle involving mysterious drones overhead, I'm going to fly my drone up and see if I can get a look at the mysterious drones."

--Probably like 8 guys, last night.

my other extremely normal take: shaming/berating people for their drug addictions is vile behavior :neocat_floof:

this includes alcoholism and nicotine addiction (hi im a recovered nicotine addict)

no this does not include bad behavior like drunk driving, or smoking into somebody's face. however i do think that responding to such actions with blanket hateful terms towards all smokers/drinkers/etc. is extremely annoying

request for hookup platform/app suggestions :boost_requested: 

Okay, everything I've found seems to be either very straight, very neurotypical, very prude, or all of them, so I'm looking for recommendations!

What I'm looking for:
- A hookup site or app of some kind, ie. it is clear that people are there for hookups and not just (performative) long-term relationships
- Sex-positive, and not prude; a good indicator is having/allowing nudes in the public profile listings
- Kink-inclusive, including hard kink, and a meaningful amount of people who practice it and talk about it openly
- (But not just bottoms/subs)
- Meaningful amount of neurospicy folks, and/or ability to find them specifically, eg. no endless performative "I don't really care but am asking about how you are anyway because that's the social convention"
- Predominantly queer (especially genderqueer), and I mean *queer*, not just "a million straight guys with internalized queerphobia who occasionally want to fuck a guy"
- But not femme-only (you know, the whole "we say non-binary but only mean the femme non-binary folks" thing)
- Preferably non-commercial, but that's only a nice-to-have if it meets the above criteria

Very bluntly put, I'm trying to find other autistic folks who want the same things I want and who are just as tired of all the neurotypical social handshake stuff that often goes nowhere.

Does this exist? I know that the joke is that fedi is this platform, but unfortunately that only seems to work if you're in Germany, which is not that useful to me as someone in the Netherlands... though I'd be happy to be proven wrong!

Anyone know of any prominent #Buddhist beings and/or communities on #Mastodon? I need to be part of a supportive philosophical community again and given my disabilities Mastodon seems like a good place to have one.

: It's that time again! Recommendations for less well-known queer sci-fi books (ie. not just Becky Chambers)? Preferably series of books!

I originally sent this in private, but was encouraged to reshare it publicly:

The role of a community administrator should be one of service, not control. Admins, mods, and other staff are responsible for providing a safe and enjoyable environment for their community members. That must come first above all other interests and concerns, even if doing so requires hard choices and personal sacrifice.

Unfortunately, there's a lot of admins who abuse their power and position. I know many people who've been traumatized by abuse, abandonment, and betrayal by leaders that they thought they could trusted. I've experienced it myself, in fact.
You are never wrong for wanting a safe environment. You owe it to yourself to find a space where you're protected and welcome, and that doesn't make you selfish.

Does anyone remember what the program that posts cat picture to your terminal periodically while you are using it. I've been searching and getting no where. #terminal #linux #help #ayuda

i miss cohosts option to just Nope a post off your timeline forever. i feel bad temp-muting people for a week just cause zhey happened to post somezhing zhat i didnt wanna see again

edit: i still have zhis oops. read zhe zhread

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