It's so weird when accessible bathrooms don't have a mirror in them. Do disabled people not get to/have to care what we look like??
Is it because we're only dull and worthy individuals, who never care about looking cute or sexy (or just meeting a bare minimum of professional acceptability, which was my goal today!)?
Contrarian men are all over the place saying “actually you DO need to give up your data to use the internet and posting on websites is actually exactly the same thing as corporations harvesting your data because you agreed to that in order to use their app and your instance admin is exactly the same as a corporation there is no difference so you should stop trying” and it's a wonder they can squeeze all those words out past the boot in their throat tbh
The internet is an absolute mess, but it usually is when it adapts.
A lot of really smart people from different places on the planet are trying to figure out how we can keep our networks for us and by us.
These convos and work are hard and intense, but meaningful change is not easy.
But you can see and feel the shift.
The web is about to get fun again.
A few months ago we re-wrote our rules to remove the term 'NSFW'; it's sex-worker exclusionary, largely non-descriptive, and increasingly irrelevant with so many people working from home now.
Instead, we're encouraging more descriptive tagging with content warnings that explain what's hidden so that people to make informed decisions on whether they want to click through.
Some good tags to use instead, depending on the nature of your work, are: lewd, sexual, erotic, nude, smut, genitals, etc.
A lesson learned from the JS ecosystem: if you don't document how to use something correctly or how to deal with a common edgecase, people will build entire new libraries, frameworks, and even language extensions to "fix" it, often breaking other things in the process
(This toot brought to you by "handling dependency loops in CommonJS")
Irritating hazard about how my brain works: once I perceive a task to have a defined 'completion' that seems near (for some fuzzy, usually inaccurate definition of 'near'), my brain switches from "working on thing" to "trying to complete thing", often pushing me beyond my natural motivation and wrecking my focus for the day
What would a fediverse version of spotify look like?
I mean, I already pay like R70 a month for my subscription so I wouldn't mind having to pay for a fediverse subscription if it went to the artists and server upkeep.
Also, these discussions about homeschooling completely ignore the fact that the best homeschooling families often work with a range of people, programs, and impromptu moments.
Homeschooling, despite its name, can actually be *more communal* than the top-down directing of all other forms of schooling.
Are some homeschooling parents pieces of shit trying to control their kids? Yes. But that doesn't mean it's everyone.
The pro-public school focus of everything, which almost never even tries to explore the problems of schools *at all*, really annoys the fuck out of me.
Just because it's a public school doesn't inherently make it better than anything else. It just makes it state-controlled.
And hey, I wonder who is controlling the curriculum in state-controlled public schools and what's happening! And I wonder how that hits marginalised people! Or more radical left-leaning politics and movements! I wonder why it is that we don't actually know what's happened in our own histories and why we only know the Most Positive Spin (for our nationalistic purposes).
Listening to some video about PragerU (which isn't horrible) only to hear this person be like:
"I can't say this for certain, but I suspect some people are using this because homeschooling is really hard. Try as they might, pretty much no parent has the skill or time to be as good as an actual school with actual teachers. A lot of parents give their kids a worksheet they found online."
Lmao, what the whole entire fuck do you think teachers are doing? *gestures at Teachers Pay Teachers and twinkl, for example*
It’s one thing to *celebrate* and wax lyrical about #multiculturalism and #Diversity, and another to actively question and dismantle the assumptions/systems that are barriers to actual inclusion and #belonging.
Here’s a little thing I wrote awhile ago about forms, Western naming conventions and my personal struggle in asserting my #identity and #belonging as a first generation Singaporean Chinese #migrant in Australia.
https://nihilistnomya.medium.com/whats-in-a-name-5aac5ed06d91
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Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.