So I'm watching a couple of folks spiraling out from a distance both off and online, and. Whew.
There's ways that some ppl will use the language of mental health, claiming that they're not getting the "community" or interpersonal "support" they need....when what's really happening is that the ppl around them are exercising their boundaries, bc the personal spiraling equates "support" w/ "letting me get away with antisocial, harmful behavior scot-free"
When someone is having whatever degree of break from reality, support actually *needs* to come in the form of someone telling them at *some* point "the way you're percieving reality right now is skewed," and that doesn't feel like support in the moment to that person, I get it. But it's what needs to happen.
The closer I get to this stuff, the clearer it is to me that "addict/surveil/extract/sell" biz models have ruined the internet really are wrecking mental health, propagating disinfo, dissolving social cohesion, etc. with very little real compensating upside. I think the case for this gets stronger everyday. But there is a TON of resistance to this among "tech people" generally, even those who work for places that would benefit from the demise of surveillance capitalism.
So you get real discomfort from tech people around even pretty weak proposals for beefed up privacy protections. You get this kind of squirming uneasiness even from tech folks who DO see that surveillance capitalism biz models are problematic. They still find it hard to reconcile themselves to the idea that nearly their entire industry, and their own wealth, is based on companies following the money within a legal structure that left basic rights unprotected against new technical capabilities.
kink-adj but mostly dunking on the cishets, adhd lol
thinking about that one time i googled for doggirl memes but ended up reading an article on "puppyplay kink" on a mostly sfw capitalist cishetnormative lifestyle website and whenever the article mentioned ppl engaging in this, even if it was just hypothetical ppl, it always pointed out that they are heterosexual. like every paragraph was like "puppyplay is a heterosexual kink that many heterosexuals like to engage in for heterosexual reasons in a heterosexual way", explicitely using the word heterosexual excessively all over the place. and anyways my takeaway from this is that heterosexuality is so fragile that the cishets need constant reaffirmation that a kink is heterosexuality-compatible in order to be able to practice it lol
“You always told me it takes time. It has taken my father’s time, my mother’s time, my uncle’s time, my brothers’ and my sisters’ time, my nieces’ and my nephews’ time. How much time do you want for your ‘progress’?” —James Baldwin
re: being "overly sectarian"
@thufie With those 'calls for unity' in general, it sure is interesting how they always come from the folks with lower standards or less ambitious goals, and it's never *them* who are willing to compromise on that, it must always be other people.
(The water-less plastic recycling processes I've seen seem to always boil down to some form of "press the pellets into a new shape under high pressure and temperature", which isn't a very flexible manufacturing method)
Something else to note (not in the video) is that recycling dyes and otherwise reducing wastewater is typically something that barely any attention is paid to with the recycling that happens in NA/EU. Other countries are much further ahead on this.
There are very similar issues with plastic recycling - there's only a few recycling processes used in NA/EU that require low or little water, and they're typically only used for manufacturing 'low-grade goods' (think plastic bollards).
This is quite cool, a jeans recycling facility that manages to recycle the *dye* - something that very frequently gets ignored in recycling processes (and is responsible for a lot of pollution): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV_-yJ6NiP8
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