“Nice is not the same as kind.
Nice is not the same as ethical.
Nice is not the same as moral.
The older I get, the less interested I am in “nice.”
Nice is the gift wrap; it says nothing about what’s inside.”
-- @lingerie_addict@twitter.com
https://twitter.com/lingerie_addict/status/991532263266496512
This is also related to the myth that "racism will die out" or "homophobia will die out" as older people die.
No, bigotry and fascistic attitudes *don't* just die out, they must be actively fought and defeated on an ongoing basis.
Because sometimes we make the mistake of thinking "Oh, the youth must not be bigoted like their forebears" but guess what.
If that were true we wouldn't have had the tiki torches or the terf explosion.
Allies and enemies in every generation.
(4/5)
Considering it's somehow becoming cheaper (rather, other cheeses are becoming more expensive), I wish the singular vegan cheese at Lidl was... better than this.
It's like if someone made a cheese but only had a vague idea of what cheese was and that their only real thought about the whole thing was based on salt content.
fuck up Nazis, yes. make their bullshit unacceptable. make them afraid to show their damn faces or speak their hate.
BUT THIS MUST BE PAIRED WITH
positive action toward the oppressed groups Nazis target. they MUST be supported, protected, welcomed
be suspicious as fuck of anyone who is super excited about punching Nazis but "meh" on actually helping the people Nazis target
cos those folx aren't rejecting the marginalization, just the crass approach to it
Honestly it was almost indistinguishable from one of the better 'real' burgers I used to order
Useful term I discovered this week: “toxic mimicry”. It’s the pattern of substituting systems/organisations/services that look superficially like they fill a core societal need but in fact act to take up the space that a genuine system would fill, and only provide virtual nutrition.
Examples:
- 6pm TV news mimics public discourse
- Malls mimic public spaces
- Daycare mimics collective child rearing
I like the term as it suggests something predatory and insidious.
https://blog.mastodon.se/inl%C3%A4gg/%C3%A5siktspolis/
#Fediblock mastodon.se - this is a post from the admin speaking about allowing anti-abortionists, anti-political correctness, people who have been harassing other users, etc., because the admin doesn't want to be the 'thought police'.
clergy sex abuse
4 days ago, a Las Vegas pastor was arrested for molesting a child.
5 days ago, a Connecticut pastor threatened to kill a boy he abused.
6 days ago, a Delaware pastor was arrested for paying a runaway child for nude photos.
7 days ago, a Montana pastor was arraigned for sexually assaulting 4 girls.
8 days ago, a Maryland pastor was caught with child porn.
15 days ago, a Kansas pastor was arrested for sexual assault of a child.
IT'S NOT DRAG QUEENS.
IT'S NOT TRANS PEOPLE.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.