We've just woken to an empty house after having a friend visit for 2 weeks and I'd love to know if a word exists in any language for the contradicting feelings of:
"Extreme relief to have your space back so you can be a feral gruntle beast again and missing someone intensely and wishing they'd stayed longer."
@gsuberland@chaos.social @tsrberry @baldur Also, related to the 'user surveys' point - it's surprisingly helpful to just enter your project name into a search engine every once in a while, and read every blog post, Reddit thread, and rant you come across. Those tend to be *full* of things that never made it into 'properly filed' issues, and give a good impression of the general atmosphere around your project, because people tend to speak more freely and directly.
Of course that does mean that you should refrain from responding to them unless you are absolutely 100% certain that you can do so non-confrontationally, because seeking out confrontation with people talking in their own spaces is (deservedly) a very quick trip to the trash pile. Better to just take notes and work on fixing their complaints in the background.
(Bonus points: you can do this one as an 'unaffiliated' contributor with no formal power within the project. Whereas a proper user survey, although it can have better coverage, tends to require speaking formally for the project.)
Gnomes use treasure maps as currency, as none of them want to walk long distances with bags of heavy coins.
Humans who use these maps to hunt down the treasure are always disappointed, as they lift the treasure-chest's lid, and find it's full of maps. This is because, as covered earlier, gnomes use treasure maps as currency, as none of them want to walk long distances with bags of heavy coins.
@gsuberland@chaos.social @tsrberry @baldur One thing I'd want to add to that is that if it's not feasible to find experienced designers (funding reasons, community politics, whatever reason), it *is* possible to just learn how to do this stuff yourself on-the-fly as a maintainer, but it makes the "be humble" part all the more important, and to make that work, you *need* to have an attitude of "if a user complains about something, that means there's a bug, even if it's not where the user thinks it is" (eg. it might sometimes be a documentation issue instead of a UX issue, but as long as people complain, there's *a* bug somewhere).
@gsuberland@chaos.social @baldur Don't know that it's worth much, but if it helps: I agree on all of this, and it has been frustrating me for over a decade.
(And I've experienced the same active resistance to changing that culture, too...)
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@hazelnot That one is described as follows, which seems to confirm my suspicions:
"2001-2003: AMD Duron 700mhz - First of my own builds. Had a 64mb GeForce 2 MX, 256MB RAM (I think) and a 30GB Western Digital HD."
@hazelnot This is the same one, I think? http://www.diffusedion.co.uk/images/Computers/Duron.jpg
@hazelnot Regretfully, not a lot of documentation on the internet of OEM cases from back then :( You're most likely to see them appear in very old pictures of people's gaming setup
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