re: dealing with money
@eniko Yeah I was afraid of that :( I figured I'd mention it anyway, in the hope that maybe you could find some way to adapt the same idea to your situation, that I couldn't think of.
I guess you could take a conservative estimate of monthly income and go from there, it may be better than nothing, even if it's not really accurate? In case no better idea comes along, that is.
dealing with money
@eniko Personally I ended up using a trick that a friend mentioned - mentally convert every price to "how many hours do I need to work to pay for this" (based on hourly rate as a freelancer, in my case).
It was originally meant to more easily reason about "is this worth spending money on if it helps me do my work more effectively", but I've also found it to help to ingrain a more accurate idea into my brain of what my *actual* financial situation is.
This does require having some sort of hourly rate to convert to. I guess if you don't work hourly it can be sort of approached by doing (totalMonthlyIncome/hoursWorkedPerWeek) or something like that?
Muis gaapt altijd drie keer.
Maar hij hield het bij twee. Ik was heel verbaasd.
"Muis? Moet je niet nog een keer gapen? Die 'nu ga ik actie ondernemen'-gaap?"
Hij keek lichtjes om zich heen en vooruit.
"Heb ik dan je middelste gaap gemist?" vroeg ik hem.
Geen antwoord.
Ik wachtte.
Na een minuut kwam De Derde Gaap.
@woodlandcat obligatory addendum: coffee is not water, and monster is also not water
Wait no, postcards are FREE while the app is in beta
Dude. No. You shouldn’t have told me about your app. This is like when they didn’t have ordering limits on USPS flat rate boxes so as a teen I ordered 10,000 flat rate boxes to my house and the local post office in my rural Iowa town had to shut down for the day to process them all. Something like that might happen.
Plurality question,
Fedi has a bunch of plural critters, so let me ask here:
How would I, as one part of a system, unambiguously refer to a pre-plural self? Both "I" or "we" seem off there, and writing it out all the time sucks.
Context: System is a split with two headmates.
Links to external resources are also welcome.
politics, 'calling the cops'
@sterophonick I guess this ultimately just boils down to "do your best to get it right, but don't expect everything to be perfect", like many things in life
politics, 'calling the cops'
@sterophonick I have mixed feelings about this. Feel like it would depend on a lot of factors - personal situation, whether you have alternative means of dealing with the situation, what the local cops are like, what risks are involved, and so on.
"Don't call the cops and sort it out on a community level in a constructive way" would be the ideal outcome but you do need to actually *have* a community to sort it out with, for that to work.
"Calling the cops" shouldn't be your *first* response, probably, but sometimes it's the one option you have.
spicy take, cryptocurrency
A lot of the scammy shit in cryptocurrency-land is basically the exact same thing that happens in the 'traditional' financial markets, just not behind closed doors this time.
And that's not a justification of cryptocurrency; it's an indictment of the 'traditional' financial markets, which are mostly fraudulent, and the absurd degree of regulation needed to keep them in check suggests that maybe we should not have them to begin with.
Did you know it used to be illegal for a company to buy back its own stock? It was understood to be stock price manipulation. (Because it is.)
Reagan's "deregulation" changed the rules in 1982.
Like everything else, companies now pay politicians to keep it the way it is.
Food, capsaicin
@reinderdijkhuis This is second-hand knowledge, but $veganPartner has told me in the past that anything fatty in nature should work quite well, and very many of the vegan replacements for non-vegan things are fatty AFAIK
@taq With the caveat that I've not looked at all of it, I came across https://sites.google.com/view/why-we-are-covid-cautious/home a while ago which seems to be a quite extensive list of studies about all sorts of COVID things - that may be helpful?
I think today's plan is to stop procrastinating and actually do some literature review on IQ, so I can finally finish this section of my AI piece
I don't think it's needed, but people aren't going to be happy with accepting at face value that intelligence not only cannot be objectively measured, but doesn't even make sense as an objective measure either
web and framework stuff
To perhaps make it more explicit: aiming for performance and accessibility *does not* actually require eliminating diversity in technical approaches, and if you act as if it does, I'm going to be pretty suspicious of your intentions
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