boost with CW: food used as a metaphor to make a really important point about AI and image descriptions
https://mastodon.eternalaugust.com/@pencilears/112978735034497272
re: meta, communication styles
@farhaven I mean, it's not quite that simple - it depends a lot on who's talking to who. There are some clearly identifiable differences between this pattern and mansplaining, but... they may not be so clearly identifiable to people unfamiliar with the pattern, and that's usually where conflict happens.
Basically what I'm describing is a form of miscommunication, rather than people genuinely believing on a moral level that these two are equivalent (at least as far as I can tell).
(The issue gets complicated further by people who *themselves* both use this pattern *and* also mansplain, which also happens, but is avoidable if you try.)
re: meta, communication styles
@silvermoon82@strangeobject.space I don't think classifying it as 'neurotypicals being neurotypicals' really covers it, to be honest; I've seen the same conflict happen in communication with other neurospicy folks (who just don't happen to share this particular communication pattern).
Like, to some degree it's a matter of "you can always block the people you don't like", sure, but IMO there should always be an attempt to reconcile different expectations and communication styles - and sometimes that will turn out impossible and that's okay, but I don't want to be assuming that prima facie.
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Het is weer zover.
Den Aha levert diepvriesspul.
In een tas.
Die in de tas babyromaines zit. Bevroren dus, 5 stuks.
Winterwortel: deels bevroren.
Bleekselderij: idem.
Prei: idem.
Dan nog groente in stukken.
Een fles kapot.
Op de kokosnoot 'zit iets raar nats'.
Ik snap dat gewoon niet. Ze vergoeden het maar ja: te laag bedrag voor bezorging dus ik moet naar winkel die ver weg is, dus met tram.
Soms, soms gaat het goed.
Meestal niet.
Vandaag dus weer niet.
@pascaline Bij mij blijft er gelukkig meestal meer heel, maar ik krijg wel sterk de indruk dat de inpakmethode in het distributiecentrum wat weg heeft van "donder het er maar bij".
Zware dingen bovenop lichte dingen, vaatwasblokjes (geeft lekker veel geur af!) naast voedsel, veel te zwaar beladen papieren tasjes met potjes en blikjes...
Als de bezorgers hier niet zo voorzichtig waren, zou het denk ik een stuk slechter gaan.
Wat een nuance in een programma voor kinderen, iets om als volwassenen van te leren:
Indonesië in de oorlog, Klokhuis
"Honderden jaren was Nederland de baas in grote delen van wat we nu kennen als Indonesië. Janouk gaat vierhonderd jaar terug in de tijd en ziet hoe Nederland delen van het eilandenrijk met geweld veroverde. Veel Indonesiërs wilden een eigen land. In augustus 1945, kort na het einde van de Tweede Wereldoorlog, riep Indonesië de onafhankelijkheid uit. Janouk ziet wat voor oorlogen er nodig waren voordat Indonesië eindelijk een eigen land werd, en hoe deze tijd hier in Nederland wordt herdacht. In de sketch zien we hoe Nederlandse kolonisten zichzelf heel erg beschaafd vinden, maar zijn ze dat ook…"
https://hetklokhuis.nl/tv-uitzending/5519/indonesie-in-de-oorlog
Neuroqueer in Nederland
https://writefreely.gladtherescake.eu/gladtherescake/neuroqueer-in-nederland
re: microsoft
@eldaking With my (probably justified in the case of Microsoft...) conspiracy theory hat on for a moment, they are entirely too insistent about having a TPM for it to (just) be about security of the user.
I bet this is related to DRM in some way.
microsoft
So, Microsoft decided to break lots of people's computers:
https://www.xda-developers.com/microsoft-cracking-down-dodging-windows-11-system-requirements/
Any "security improvements" that require people to buy a new computer (or phone) is a security upgrade that poor people and/or people in the third world don't benefit from.
It is worse than useless, it is discriminatory, it is obscene. It throws people under the bus, causes us great economic duress, for the sake of other people's security. It erects a walled community and keeps us out, and pretends things are safer by removing us from the statistics.
@jon @bohwaz@mamot.fr ... wait, so what are people supposed to do who don't *have* a surname?
Eckartsberga. Het station lijkt haast bevroren in de tijd, er zit zelfs een vuilniszak in de afvalbak #Pepermuntje
Is there a name for this philosophy around projects (of any kind)?
"Never discourage someone (or yourself) from attempting a project based on whether you think it is achievable, but you do have a moral obligation to discourage someone from attempting a project if it would be unethical for them to do so."
this is your irregular reminder to
* be gay
* do crime
* post about being gay
* not post about doing crime
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Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.