@silvermoon82@strangeobject.space I don't think classifying it as 'neurotypicals being neurotypicals' really covers it, to be honest; I've seen the same conflict happen in communication with other neurospicy folks (who just don't happen to share this particular communication pattern).

Like, to some degree it's a matter of "you can always block the people you don't like", sure, but IMO there should always be an attempt to reconcile different expectations and communication styles - and sometimes that will turn out impossible and that's okay, but I don't want to be assuming that prima facie.