Sven Slootweg (soft-deprecated) @joepie91@pixie.town
- Future new account
- @joepie91@slightly.tech
- Matrix
- @joepie91:pixie.town
- Pronouns
- they/them, he/him, whatever, it's not like I have any idea either 🙃
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.
Joined Aug 2019
re: euro truck simulator
@f0x Living that underpaid contractor life
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#FediTips for new arrivals: Now is a great time to review who you're following, especially anyone whom you used to follow back on the birdsite, and decide whether you _still_ feel like following them.
Seriously, how do you _feel_ about each account that you're following? Check in with your gut. It may be time to let go of that account you hate- or dread-follow, not to mention the accounts you only follow out of inertia or guilt.
Now's the perfect time to clear house and make room on your feed for constructive voices, marginalized voices, future voices, and your friends' voices. Do what the algorithm couldn't and make your feed your own. Heck yeah!
meta, personal struggles, long
So when I created this account, I originally intended to use it as a quieter, semi-private place for self-discovery - especially getting more used to expressing myself emotionally again; with a stretch goal of becoming comfortable with talking about my sexuality in public again, as I once was.
This is a really big thing for me - years of Very Serious And Professional masking for activist purposes has made it more and more difficult for me to express myself as a person, because it's hard to shake the role once you're used to it, and easy to become worried about how it'll affect whether people take your words seriously. My forms of activism *do* often involve talking to non-radical folks, after all.
This has become... increasingly challenging, as Twitter is on fire, everybody is moving here, and many followers on Twitter have started auto-following me here - probably not aware that I may be considerably more personal here. And likely coming from a very different and more 'professional' background.
And that's become a problem. Because I wasn't really done with that process of self-discovery yet, and I'm now becoming less and less comfortable with expressing myself fully, for (mostly irrational) social pressure reasons.
At the same time, I don't want to lock my account, because my activism work *does* continue to be a big part of my life, and for that to work, it needs to be easily accessible and followable.
But compartmentalizing into different accounts *also* sucks, because I am a whole person, and the activist and the personal (*including* the sexual) are inextricably connected to each other, even if it might not be immediately obvious to many people why. I don't really want to separate them out.
So... now what the hell do I do?
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it's entirely possible that the ex twitter employee mastodon instance now does in fact have more active users than twitter has employees left
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supporting the fediverse financially
This is a topic again, and it should be, but some of our newer neighbors aren’t aware of all the dynamics involved.
the primary developer of the mastodon software has a patreon. it generates tens of thousands of dollars monthly for him and supports his two enormous poorly moderated servers and development of mainline mastodon.
there are thousands of other servers and dozens of other projects that make the fediverse the fediverse.
your support there would be far more meaningful and effective than Eugen’s patreon.
it’s the difference between donating to a multi-national charity that pays execs big bucks from your donation and donating to the group of folks watching out for our unhoused neighbors in our local communities.
please look around this place and see where the hard work is being done and toss your support there.
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Ableism, Neurodivergence
From a partner's CBT and ADHD workbook:
"Regarding the long-range management of ADHD, it is important to point out that the relapse rate for ADHD is 100%. "
What in the neurotypical ableist nonsense framing is this?!?
re: Quick explainer about GoToSocial for people who've heard of it but aren't sure what it is
@dumpsterqueer Is this the new "please stop building your critical infrastructure on my alpha software" anti-marketing strategy?
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Don’t look for heroes.
Look for people who build community by making space for people to care for each other and raise one another up.
@selfawaresoup@chaos.social I'd imagine there will be quite a few folks like that on scholar.social?
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Protip if you have ADHD: If you break a task down into steps, and create a deadline for each step, then you get to feel even more stress as you watch more deadlines sail past you.
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Finally decided to give Mastodon a go. Here are some samples of my work and where to find me!
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you're reading that right - fun levels are at 100%
(100%) ■■■■■■■■■■
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Little PSA:
A huge chunk of the fediverse came here because they were harassed, literally and aggressively, off birdsite. Understandably, they don't want to be inundated with reminders of the things they went through there.
I know it's big news right now, but please, if you're talking about that place, consider using a content warning <3
Thank you.
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To be honest and maybe I forgot but since I started to use the Internet/Fidonet around 1988, I never seen a migration so big from a CORPORATE service to a community decentralized service in so many numbers, I seen the opossite but never from evil to good, tends to be from good to evil (centralized, closed source Internet) so I guess now I seen it all this gives me some hope all the new people will learn about other things also ethical in the fediverse, like #Matrix and #PixelFed even #Gemini
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beep (professional)
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Het is allemaal decentraal, dus doe je donaties ook decentraal: steun eerst je instance met donaties (als je het kunt missen, en de admins om donaties vragen), en als je dan nog geld overhebt, dán is het interessant om "Mastodon" (de Duitse nonprofit) ook geld te geven.
- Future new account
- @joepie91@slightly.tech
- Matrix
- @joepie91:pixie.town
- Pronouns
- they/them, he/him, whatever, it's not like I have any idea either 🙃
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
- No alt text (request) = no boost.
- Boosts OK for all boostable posts.
- DMs are open.
- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.
Joined Aug 2019
