@lazerwalker
I adore your idea. When i made my ergo keyboard(s) i just put them on a board on my lap but this is way better.
mildly self-deprecating
@phseiff
I think you are a very awesome being, online and in irl physical space.
And if you think "but if I'm using CWs, less people are going to read my post!" – yes, that's the point. Giving people the choice.
If you take away that choice and expose them to spoilers, they're gonna mute or block you and won't read any of your posts ever again ;)
Also, you can totally use CWs to signal that your post is probably safe to read, e.g. "spoiler-free thoughts about Star Trek Prodigy 2x08", or "vague ideas about where Star Trek Prodigy season 2 could be headed after 2x08".
Injury joke
@breakfastgolem
"Ah, what a wonderful day to put on my extra warm comfy socks, now i just need to go downstairs to get some tea-AAAAAAAH"
"To create something as a trans woman is to extend oneself beyond the carnal. As our ideas of gender shift, the creativity of trans women is making this change known and felt. As cis people at large begin to feel this shift, they are already reacting to us. We are being kept out of bathrooms, shelters, and history. A trans woman defending herself through creativity is a way to ensure the cisgender gaze no longer controls us."
@twotone
how about a tiny skateboard and the caption "tony the hawk"?
So apparently Google is blocking uBlock from Chrome.
I hereby rebrand Google Chrome as "Google Firefox Downloader".
Asking the psychologists out there:
So from my experience with how otherwise healthy people deal with stress, and triggers I know there is a behavioral pattern in which people who have experienced severe stress over longer periods of time and are presented with the possibility of avoidance will avoid any triggers connected to that stressor. Basically as a mechanism to avoid stress induced trauma.
Somehow it is my working theory why societies tend to become crisis-blind if they feel they aren't directly affected.
Like, we ignore the climate crisis and engage in cliomate-destroying behaviour like meat consumption, recreational fossil fuel burning, consumerism etc. quite similar to us ignoring the ongoing Covid Endemic. We are moved by those things when they first occur but if we hold up that mental load for too long, we simply become blind to it.
So I wonder if there's a term for that or if I am completely off here.
joke about impostor syndrome, not serious
@phseiff
ah i see.. do you benefit from affirmations/deconstructing premises?
if you do:
there is no right or wrong way to be any gender. you don't have to perform gender at all time. nobody knows you better than you.
its normal to feel these things. i hope you can find the self security you are looking for.
(my agender perspective on gender makes it look like a skill sometimes)
ph ~
@endeavorance
personally my fingers lock up and "jump" less since i built myself an ergodox. so i would say there are effects.
my problem is EDS tho, not carpal tunnel shenanigans.
joke about impostor syndrome, not serious
@phseiff
gatekeeper voice: are you sure you aren't just filled half?
(you are more capable than you think. its okay to be invested into something just a bit.)
ableism, the first rule of thumb we want everyone to learn
don't use medical language as an insult
that's names of personality disorders, developmental disorders, widely-documented neurodivergences, classes of injury, none of it
go ahead and get rid of references to drugs, too, while you're at it
talk about what people do and are doing and keep doing, not about what medicalized group you assume is sufficiently inferior to 'normal' people to do what they do
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posts about feelings sometimes
gender egoist
anti-essentialist
anarchist weirdo
neuroqueer
is an identity crisis
healthn't
many
please tell me things directly instead of passively if possible