@moonglow "No cops at pride" includes the identity police!
It is becoming more and more appealing to just cut myself off from all social things for a few months, and work on projects quietly. Entirely too much incapacitating misery, and CW culture sure isn't what it used to be on here either (and entirely absent in many other places).
Unfortunately that stops working the moment I need help with something, or when I want to share what I've been working on, or when I'm looking for someone to collaborate with, or...
I despise the pollution of social spaces with miseryposting so, so much. And honestly I just need someone with some amount of reliable spoons to work together with on a project, outside of public spaces.
> The most distressing thing is that maybe it does work; if not well enough to actually do the work, at least ambiguously enough to fool the executives long-term.
https://blog.glyph.im/2025/06/i-think-im-done-thinking-about-genai-for-now.html
so, so many parts of this that resonate with me. Thank you for sharing these thoughts
Sinds 2013 zijn er geen prostitutieramen meer in Utrecht, in 2021 sloot de tippelzone en nu zijn er plannen om nieuwe sekswerkplekken te realiseren in Parkeergarage Paardenveld. De buurt kwam laatst in opstand want ze vrezen overlast. Ik vermoed dat het politiebureau meer overlast veroorzaakt.
De kameraden van Wandelclub030 zijn begonnen met een stickeractie om solidariteit te tonen naar sekswerkers.
I initially posted briefly about this, but wanted to say a little more about Buscaglia, the journalist who "wrote" the AI-generated supplement in question.
Resist like your career depends on it.
https://loudpoet.com/2025/06/05/a-modest-defense-of-marco-buscaglia-ai-vs-journalism/
on CNs, discussing a joke about forced medical transition, specifically forced hrt, mh- mentioned
Here's the thing about content notes:
If I read them, I expect and NEED them to be accurate and complete. If I can't count on that, they're useless.
Let's get into the example that ruined a good few hours for me, shall we?
I decided to click on a post that was tagged with "forced transition". What I expected was a post about something social - maybe someone getting forced to wear a certain piece of clothing or getting addressed a certain way. Maybe a discussion about the social pressures to either perform being nonbinary or perform a binary gender. Something like that.
That's not what I got though. What I got was a joke about replacing soap with hormone gel, E in the men's toilets and T in the women's toilets.
That's not just forced transition. That's forced transition and the non-consensual admission of a substance that affects the physical health of someone without their knowledge.
Now, at first I, personally, was just upset about having to go to the women's bathroom again in that fictional world. That's what set off my knee-jerk reaction of "nope, I can't deal with this right now, I need to take a long fucking moment to breathe."
But the far worse thing is the amount of violence claimed as a fun joke that just didn't get acknowledged in the content note whatsoever.
Maybe that's on me, maybe transition only means medical steps to the op of that post and I just didn't know. But I wish they had put in that bit of information, because I would not have clicked on a joke about forcing medical transition on someone. I would not have spent the last couple of hours regulating my reaction to that and trying to find the words to express my issue.
I love how all these news articles about scams and security problems are always all "if something is too cheap to be true, that usually means there's something sketchy going on"
As if a normal person could possibly have any kind of reasonable idea of what stuff is 'supposed' to cost in this exploitative capitalist hellscape where every company lies all the time including the supposedly legitimate ones
TIL that frogs, sharks, salamanders and a few other cold-blooded creatures have a third eye that helps them thermoregulate called the "pineal eye" (bc it works with the pineal gland)
WANTED: Intel Architecture Labs 1990’s CD-ROM’s. They appear to have maybe been monthly. They contained a mirror of Intel’s ‘download.intel.com’ ftp server, specifically the /ial/ subdirectory which is not in the 2014 backup of the site on archive.org.
Lots and lots of white papers and design guideline documents in there. Especially looking for ones from the late 1990’s (1998-ish onward) if they exist. I’ve seen references in mailing lists to them that lead me to believe they do.
Example gem: intel trying to cover its ass after the FDIV bug, and have some more FDIV
Bestowing cursed knowledge time, the website of crt.sh is just an apache module that talks to Postgres and the website is generated from within the database itself from a 5k line plpgsql function
https://github.com/crtsh/certwatch_db/blob/master/fnc/web_apis.fnc
Speaking as a software dev, you should take note when users start building their own software to work around intentional limits in your application. It's a sign that you've made a terrible mistake somewhere.
RE: https://social.growyourown.services/users/FediTips/statuses/114624857663236436
#Spotted at a Second-Hand Book Fair in Aotearoa New Zealand:
A woman (60s?) wearing a sequinned black beret and a fluffy pink jumper is showing a friend her cookbook finds. She says: "I LOVE cookbooks. I don't often make the recipes but they're so good for ideas even if you don't follow them."
A young human (7?) is inspecting $1 mystery novels as Mum selects a generous stack. He asks: "How do you know if they're good ones?"
His mum shrugs with a grin: "I don't! I'll give them a read and see. That's a part of the adventure. I never know where I'm going to go next!"
A woman (70s?) is inspecting cookbooks over her reading glasses. With raised eyebrows she says: "French tarts, I wonder what they're like." Her friend cackles wickedly and says: "Come on Daph, with the colourful life you've led I'm sure you've had your share."
A brisk woman (60s?) in a blue cardigan is volunteering at checkout. A man (80s?) approaches and she says: "Ah! You've got a dictionary. You're a man after my own heart."
He looks down at it, then up at her with a serious frown: "I find the words mean more if they come in a heavy book."
A man (70s?) walks up next to his partner who is browsing art books. He pecks her on the cheek and says: "Take as long as you want, love. The science fiction selection is excellent this year and I may be some time."
The typos spotted in this post are a bit under this weather this morning. If spotted, send them back to bed with a lemon honey and a hot water bottle.
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.