For any given problem, there's usually a space of "solutions that aren't immediately obvious, but that you would run into very quickly if you made any proactive effort at all".
The easiest way to determine whether someone genuinely cares about an issue, or is just pretending that they do, is to see if they're coming up with solutions like that.
I want to remind everyone that not having access to HRT, or not transitioning, or not "being diagnosed" among a myriad of other things don't make you "less trans".
You belong here just as much as I do, as someone which cannot transition, is too poor to afford HRT - or go the long way through therapy - didn't ever "got diagnosed"
You belong here.
adhd management
trying something new, trying to separate tasks into important-urgent (IU) and important-not-urgent (INU).
the second category is the kind of stuff that falls through the cracks until it becomes a crisis and as a result becomes urgent. trying to be better about moving through life than responding to a succession of panics.
scheduling a repeating weekly urgent task to review my important-not-urgent tasks and try and do/make progress on one. we will see.
plasma active :crywhy:
https://kde.org/announcements/plasma-mobile/plasma-active-three/
My city has an event where people could color in a drawing of the cathedral tower and send in the coloring, and now they are projecting them on to the tower. It is fantastic.
Happy day, whatever you celebrate. And for the northern hemisphere, more daylight hours are on the way 😶🌫️
#utrecht #domtoren #holiday #light #cathedral #festival #chrtistmas #yule
Afgelopen donderdag gaven we de bezoekers van de eindejaarsborrel van VNO-NCW een bijzonder kerstcadeau: een confrontatie met hun destructieve strategie van vertragen, verzwakken en blokkeren. Het is tijd voor échte verandering, voordat we op een opwarming van 3°C afstevenen. #Klimaatrechtvaardigheid
The perfect mug does not exis...
Update: my favourite person @simoxsimo says that you just have to search on etsy for "ADHD cup" and you'll find something very similar.
Fakkeloptocht “tegen discriminatie”: een repressieve kerstmis feelgood wandeling https://jokekaviaar.nl/2024/12/25/fakkeloptocht-tegen-discriminatie-een-repressieve-kerstmis-feelgood-wandeling/
Een kerstkadootje voor @ionica! Zij vertelde onlangs over het plezier een kerstkaartje te sturen naar een vriend met een huisnummer hoger dan de postcode. En toen vroeg ik me af, hoeveel adressen kunnen dat zijn? Het komt 26435 keer voor, waarvan 9010 keer alleen al in Amsterdam, en 4124 keer in Julianadorp! Maar nog exclusiever: 25 adressen hebben (bijna) dezelfde postcode als huisnummer! Waaronder Rode Kruislaan 1111A, 1111XA. Fijne kerstmis voor Ionica & de haren!
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.