STIs and the stigma around them
The reason people are perfectly normal about oral herpes but terrified of Chlamydia is that the latter affects genitals and the former doesn't. Even though it's an illness like any other (a mild one at that), just the fact that it affects a specific, quite arbitrary part of your fleshy vessel makes it taboo and scary and shameful.
And it's so weird that STIs are the scary ones here because it's so very easy to prevent their transmission! Going with the oral herpes example, you're probably gonna kiss (or otherwise exchange saliva with) significantly more people than you're gonna fuck. With illnesses that spread through coughing/sneezing it's even harder to prevent transmission. Meanwhile with STIs it's like, you find out you have one, you simply don't have sex (or use protection) until it's dealt with and then you continue on as usual. This isn't to say you shouldn't use protection otherwise. You should, just in case. But let's drop the STI stigma.
It really cannot be overstated enough: "For-profit health insurance" is fundamentally incompatible with keeping people healthy. UnitedHealthcare did not deny 1 out of every 3 claims because they thought they weren't medically valuable, they did it because they knew they could get away with it. The entire system cannot ever provide health as a meaningful outcome. It must be eliminated and replaced with taxation and a single-payer institution built on care, not resource hoarding.
As with every #STFUfriday post, I'm a lawyer in the USA. These comments are based on law in the USA. (And they apply to all people in the USA, whether or not they are citizens.) Some US states provide more protections than this. /end
It’s #STFUfriday!
When cops ask you questions, ask for a lawyer and then STFU:
- I am not discussing how I’m doing or where I’m going.
- Am I free to leave?
- I am not answering any questions.
- If they ask to search anything: "I do not consent to a search."
- I want to talk to a lawyer.
Say it with me now, "I want to talk to a lawyer."
I mean sure, You can spend all of this time evading advanced memory corruption detection, ASLR, W^X, etc. But have you considered just shoving funny bash strings into every possible hole and seeing if stuff is so busted that it will just run it anyway?
(This compromised a non zero amount of people)
trans trafficking psa
🦾a trafficker will try to lure you into a situation where they have a lot of power over you, thus making it painful or dangerous for you to leave. It can take the form of direct imprisonment, but it can also be in the form of blackmail, psychological threats, controlling your access to a medication you need or a substance you are dependent on, controlling your finances, trapping you in a job you cannot easily leave, or scamming you
They like to target people in vulnerable situations where they may be low on alternatives
They will promise a good job, safe housing, a supportive environment, even a loving committed relationship. Things you might really need and be outright desperate for. Things which *most* people don’t offer out of malicious intent
But the trend will be toward making you more and more dependent on them while making you socially isolated
This is to get you under control so you can be forced to do what they want
Your life depends on millions of people.
You and I need millions of people.
We can’t know them all. We will never meet them all. But, self-sufficiency is an illusion, often an expensive and thinly drawn one at that. The more high tech and comfortable your life is? The more true this is.
I do not care if you have a cabin in the woods. I do not care if you “reject modern medicine” —
This is one of those things I find “obvious” but I can imagine it starting a big argument for some.
spicy take, that shooting
Honestly, the revolutionary potential in this event is immense.
spicy take, that shooting
I think it's excellent, actually, that the cops and media are spending so many resources and attention on tracking down the shooter.
Because they're doing an excellent job at driving a political turning point and possibly a revolution, by continuing to keep the event and its motivation in people's minds for such a long time.
I have been thinking about this ever since years ago Julie explained to me that the reason she dislikes graphical user interfaces is they feel like prisons because to a much larger extent they are an experience fully orchestrated by somebody else.
We choose or are required to engage with a person, organization, business, government. They dictate what software to use for the interaction based on what is most convenient and advantageous to them.
My life would be so much easier if things worked like in The Sims. Toilet getting dirty and instantly changing from the "clean" asset to the "dirty" asset? Nice, that's a call to action I can understand.
Meanwhile in real life everything just gets slowly and continually more and more dirty and my brain completely filters it out because it "doesn't look different from yesterday"
that shooting
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.