Sven Slootweg (soft-deprecated) @joepie91@pixie.town
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In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.
Joined Aug 2019
digging up some old meta frustrations that still bother me
The problem with chiding people on "you should be more welcoming to newcomers to fedi" has always been that nobody ever bothered to ask those people whether they actually *wanted* the place to grow bigger, it was just assumed to be okay and then when people objected to this, those objections were immediately paved over
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there was this fedi post from a while ago about how community isn't a party that you show up to, expecting to be served. it's more like a potluck, you're supposed to bring something to the table too. I think about that a lot. it's just really good to remember. everyone wants community but it's so easy to forget to participate in building it. I wish I realized that earlier. now I'm just hoping that I learn how to interact with people better and feel more assertive about my agency over the spaces I occupy.
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uspol & fedi meta
Now that their failing campaign is over here’s to hoping the #Mastodon4Harris libs redirect their funds to mutual aid, especially for marginalized people in the US whose communities have been destroyed by the successive Republican & Democrat administrations 🙃
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"leftists don't even necessarily mean capitalism is bad"
Yeah we do tho. We do mean that.
Yeah we do tho. We do mean that.
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**So what is this Defaidodon thing that people are talking about today?**
Defaidodon is a bit of a play on words, with the first part being the Welsh word for sheep (defaid - in this case a plural word), plus the second half of Mastodon, to make a new hashtag. It grew out of some silliness on the Welsh instance toot.cymru around the time when lots of people joined up.
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@nnedi “The exercise of imagination is dangerous to those who profit from the way things are because it has the power to show that the way things are is not permanent, not universal, not necessary.” - Ursula Le Guin
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Friendly reminder to wait for the remaining 45% of Californian ballots to get reported before trying to draw conclusions about the popular vote total
#AskFedi: Is there a single, concise name for the "./configure, make, make install" build workflow, and variants thereof?
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Suggestions, please, and reposts.
I want to develop a local network of trust for sharing care activities across households and without the intermediation of money.
Local means within a 30-minute walk from my residence.
Network of trust means each participant in the network has clear and reliable expectations about what others in the network can do
Care activities means child care, elder care, tutoring, home and garden care, cooking, household chores, shopping and many other things we tend to think of as internal to each household (or paid service work).
Across households means not bounded by individual residences or family relations.
Without the intermediation of money means no form of monetary compensation, neither directly nor through some assignment of points or other values.
Just people helping each other.
I feel like I am describing something not at all new and yet bewilderingly unknown and complex in the present.
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"A security culture is a set of customs shared by a community whose members may be targeted by the government, designed to minimize risk. Having a security culture in place saves everyone the trouble of having to work out safety measures over and over from scratch, and can help offset paranoia and panic in stressful situations—hell, it might keep you out of prison, too."
— What is Security Culture? | Crimethinc.
https://ru.crimethinc.com/2004/11/01/what-is-security-culture
One would almost think that there's a message being sent here by the authorities
Oh look the anarchist magazine arrived in an open envelope again
uspol, positive
I appreciate all the folks on here who have responded to the situation in the US by sharing advice on how to move away from the US, how to stay and fight, how to protect yourself, and so on.
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US politics data
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It's been many years since I read it but the book White Rage is a good summary of the history of white americans happily hurting themselves if it hurts black americans more
this isn't some new exciting sociological phenomena
it's just the large scale version of an abusive person breaking his own things: getting more out of it in satisfaction than he loses materially
yeah men are harmed by the very toxic masculinity they fund live on stream via superchat, but they're getting a satisfaction that makes the exchange make sense
when people start thinking that way I don't think you win them over by convincing them you'll give them rewards for good behavior
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rather than asking how we've failed young men that they're swinging far-right, ask why so many young men find it appealing to be told that all their problems are because someone with blue hair and pronouns thinks misogyny is real
have we failed them or are many of them, in the face of progress against (trans)misogyny and sexual violence, choosing to fail us and being rewarded for doing so
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there comes a point where people need to grow up and realize that it's not people "voting with their wallets", or young men alienated by feminists who blame them for everything, or middle america abandoned by coastal elites
folks know what trump is and chose him as a weapon to be wielded against the people they want to hurt
remind yourself of the old essay "the only moral abortion is my abortion"
trump voters are exactly these people: they'll take your kindness one second and tell you you're a murderer in the same breath
they're the people who take welfare and then rail about "welfare queens" getting rich off of food stamps
the people who yell about free speech but silence everyone they disagree with
the immigrants who hate immigration
you can't appeal to them because these are, fundamentally, people whose biggest problem is with the very idea of living in a fair society where people who are Not Them are their equals
that's why they target who they target
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Nix drama
@delroth I'm so tired, so so tired. If they had just taken proper action and made the space even vaguely welcoming I'd probably be a lot more involved, I have personally boycotted helping nix in any way with my contributions, and I know a good amount of people who are with me. Can these guys just shut up and listen for once in their miserable soulless lives.
- Future new account
- @joepie91@slightly.tech
- Matrix
- @joepie91:pixie.town
- Pronouns
- they/them, he/him, whatever, it's not like I have any idea either 🙃
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
- No alt text (request) = no boost.
- Boosts OK for all boostable posts.
- DMs are open.
- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.
Joined Aug 2019
