**So what is this Defaidodon thing that people are talking about today?**
Defaidodon is a bit of a play on words, with the first part being the Welsh word for sheep (defaid - in this case a plural word), plus the second half of Mastodon, to make a new hashtag. It grew out of some silliness on the Welsh instance toot.cymru around the time when lots of people joined up.
@nnedi “The exercise of imagination is dangerous to those who profit from the way things are because it has the power to show that the way things are is not permanent, not universal, not necessary.” - Ursula Le Guin
#AskFedi: Is there a single, concise name for the "./configure, make, make install" build workflow, and variants thereof?
Suggestions, please, and reposts.
I want to develop a local network of trust for sharing care activities across households and without the intermediation of money.
Local means within a 30-minute walk from my residence.
Network of trust means each participant in the network has clear and reliable expectations about what others in the network can do
Care activities means child care, elder care, tutoring, home and garden care, cooking, household chores, shopping and many other things we tend to think of as internal to each household (or paid service work).
Across households means not bounded by individual residences or family relations.
Without the intermediation of money means no form of monetary compensation, neither directly nor through some assignment of points or other values.
Just people helping each other.
I feel like I am describing something not at all new and yet bewilderingly unknown and complex in the present.
"A security culture is a set of customs shared by a community whose members may be targeted by the government, designed to minimize risk. Having a security culture in place saves everyone the trouble of having to work out safety measures over and over from scratch, and can help offset paranoia and panic in stressful situations—hell, it might keep you out of prison, too."
— What is Security Culture? | Crimethinc.
https://ru.crimethinc.com/2004/11/01/what-is-security-culture
US politics data
uspol
It's been many years since I read it but the book White Rage is a good summary of the history of white americans happily hurting themselves if it hurts black americans more
this isn't some new exciting sociological phenomena
it's just the large scale version of an abusive person breaking his own things: getting more out of it in satisfaction than he loses materially
yeah men are harmed by the very toxic masculinity they fund live on stream via superchat, but they're getting a satisfaction that makes the exchange make sense
when people start thinking that way I don't think you win them over by convincing them you'll give them rewards for good behavior
uspol
rather than asking how we've failed young men that they're swinging far-right, ask why so many young men find it appealing to be told that all their problems are because someone with blue hair and pronouns thinks misogyny is real
have we failed them or are many of them, in the face of progress against (trans)misogyny and sexual violence, choosing to fail us and being rewarded for doing so
uspol
there comes a point where people need to grow up and realize that it's not people "voting with their wallets", or young men alienated by feminists who blame them for everything, or middle america abandoned by coastal elites
folks know what trump is and chose him as a weapon to be wielded against the people they want to hurt
remind yourself of the old essay "the only moral abortion is my abortion"
trump voters are exactly these people: they'll take your kindness one second and tell you you're a murderer in the same breath
they're the people who take welfare and then rail about "welfare queens" getting rich off of food stamps
the people who yell about free speech but silence everyone they disagree with
the immigrants who hate immigration
you can't appeal to them because these are, fundamentally, people whose biggest problem is with the very idea of living in a fair society where people who are Not Them are their equals
that's why they target who they target
Nix drama
@delroth I'm so tired, so so tired. If they had just taken proper action and made the space even vaguely welcoming I'd probably be a lot more involved, I have personally boycotted helping nix in any way with my contributions, and I know a good amount of people who are with me. Can these guys just shut up and listen for once in their miserable soulless lives.
@davidho This is enraging because I know a lot of blind people who use Trainline because it's the least-inaccessible of the digital purchase options available to them.
I'm so sick of disabled people having to pay more to make up for things being inaccessible. Especially when we tend to have so little money!
general politics
happens everywhere
Poland, Germany, the US
only thing they can achieve by trying to become more like the growing right extreme options is loosing their voters towards the center that find it absolutely unacceptable
people supporting the extreme right will never be able to trust Kamala Harris, Olaf Scholz or Donald Tusk no matter what they say, even if they're willing to agree with certain steps they are taking (like xenophobic policies)
the only thing that can achieve is solidifying support for the extreme views they had already, with the same preference they had already
general politics
damn i wish centrist and liberal parties all over the world stopped appealing to the electorate they have absolutely no chance of convincing and instead focused on maybe not discouraging those who actually might want to vote for them lmao
happens all over the world with the rise of far-right
no guys, the solution to growing support of these groups is not shifting towards them
their voters will never trust you and the only thing you can achieve is reassuring them that "yeah, our beloved fascists were right all along" :)
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.