uspol
It's been many years since I read it but the book White Rage is a good summary of the history of white americans happily hurting themselves if it hurts black americans more
this isn't some new exciting sociological phenomena
it's just the large scale version of an abusive person breaking his own things: getting more out of it in satisfaction than he loses materially
yeah men are harmed by the very toxic masculinity they fund live on stream via superchat, but they're getting a satisfaction that makes the exchange make sense
when people start thinking that way I don't think you win them over by convincing them you'll give them rewards for good behavior
uspol
rather than asking how we've failed young men that they're swinging far-right, ask why so many young men find it appealing to be told that all their problems are because someone with blue hair and pronouns thinks misogyny is real
have we failed them or are many of them, in the face of progress against (trans)misogyny and sexual violence, choosing to fail us and being rewarded for doing so
uspol
there comes a point where people need to grow up and realize that it's not people "voting with their wallets", or young men alienated by feminists who blame them for everything, or middle america abandoned by coastal elites
folks know what trump is and chose him as a weapon to be wielded against the people they want to hurt
remind yourself of the old essay "the only moral abortion is my abortion"
trump voters are exactly these people: they'll take your kindness one second and tell you you're a murderer in the same breath
they're the people who take welfare and then rail about "welfare queens" getting rich off of food stamps
the people who yell about free speech but silence everyone they disagree with
the immigrants who hate immigration
you can't appeal to them because these are, fundamentally, people whose biggest problem is with the very idea of living in a fair society where people who are Not Them are their equals
that's why they target who they target
Nix drama
@delroth I'm so tired, so so tired. If they had just taken proper action and made the space even vaguely welcoming I'd probably be a lot more involved, I have personally boycotted helping nix in any way with my contributions, and I know a good amount of people who are with me. Can these guys just shut up and listen for once in their miserable soulless lives.
@davidho This is enraging because I know a lot of blind people who use Trainline because it's the least-inaccessible of the digital purchase options available to them.
I'm so sick of disabled people having to pay more to make up for things being inaccessible. Especially when we tend to have so little money!
general politics
happens everywhere
Poland, Germany, the US
only thing they can achieve by trying to become more like the growing right extreme options is loosing their voters towards the center that find it absolutely unacceptable
people supporting the extreme right will never be able to trust Kamala Harris, Olaf Scholz or Donald Tusk no matter what they say, even if they're willing to agree with certain steps they are taking (like xenophobic policies)
the only thing that can achieve is solidifying support for the extreme views they had already, with the same preference they had already
general politics
damn i wish centrist and liberal parties all over the world stopped appealing to the electorate they have absolutely no chance of convincing and instead focused on maybe not discouraging those who actually might want to vote for them lmao
happens all over the world with the rise of far-right
no guys, the solution to growing support of these groups is not shifting towards them
their voters will never trust you and the only thing you can achieve is reassuring them that "yeah, our beloved fascists were right all along" :)
Whoa. Apparently a lot of cheap clip leads are now made from copper-coated iron instead of copper? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15sMogK3vTI
uspol, liberals
(Please tell me that the liberals/democrats are organizing on another hashtag?)
uspol, liberals
The total silence of liberals and democrats on the #MastodonForHarris hashtag is being very loud right now
uspol
the main thing im thinking about is how the #mastodonforharris crowd spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to support a campaign that was doomed from the start instead of helping their own community and made themselves look like complete dickheads
uspol, message to americans
i don't want this to seem as a "i have it worse than you" post. i wouldn't even go to america if it meant leaving this place once and for all. but all i wanna say, people have survived this. i am surviving this. we can get through this. but we won't if we lose will to fight.
so give yourself some grace, go sleep, relax, just to shake off the panic. it's never good. and then come together with friends and fam, and organize. don't give yourself up without a fight.
uspol, message to americans
this looks grim, i know. this is definitely not good.
what i want to tell you all though, is that i live in an autocracy where queer rights are nonexistent.
living here is painful. but we still have queer spaces. we still have people who try to help and fight back even when the odds are stacked. don't lose hope just yet. you guys aren't as far gone as us, you have changing parties and strong grassroots movements, you can still turn this around.
Prep Advice for Americans while it's still 2024
If you don't already have these things, here's something to work on that gives you strength and options for the potential worst day of your future life.
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* Lawyer
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