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Confidence is not "I know what I'm doing."

Confidence is "I know how to find that out" and "I know how to learn new things" and most importantly "I know when I don't know what I'm doing, so I stop and find someone who does"

Obnoxious blowhards rely on people not understanding this distinction. And they amplify it by framing actual confidence as weakness.

This may be a useful thing to talk about with certain people in your life who are being fooled by fascists.

I suspect that a lot of white people in the fedi think if there were as much racism as Black folks are saying then they would see more of it. However, they're misunderstanding the nature of the racism. It's not casual, it's _targeted_. The racists go out of their way to find Black people and harass them.
Since it's targeted, people who aren't the targets see only a very small fraction of it.
Black folks aren't making shit up. Listen to them.
#racism

Capitalism's greatest trick was stealing so much of our time that we cannot imagine living without the 'conveniences' it sells back to us.

"Today Signifies the eagerly awaited renewal data for your subscription with a planned deduction of $239.99 set to occur from your account,"

I don't know, but if I were running a support hotline scam, I probably wouldn't be writing in Acquisition Blogpost voice 😂

Is there any way to stop KDE from thinking I'm dragging and dropping when I'm fact I'm just clicking all the fucking time

@joepie91 It's really eye-opening to talk to anyone who works in marketing. They're like lawyers, seeing the world entirely in terms of messaging, with no actual values of their own. This is why I teach my kid that all marketing is lying, without exception.

A separate but related point: the shittier companies are allowed to be, the more susceptible people will be to scams.

Because how do you expect people to distinguish between the scams that are state-sanctioned, and the ones that are not?

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Sure a rising tide lifts all boats, but if you haven’t noticed that there are people in the sea who drown, you really haven’t been paying attention.

Things I love about biking as part of my commute:

Seeing other people not driving to work. The streets are covered in bikes and scooters. The bike trail has tons of folks walking to work and to the metro stations
Getting some exercise. It feels good to get moving first thing in the morning, and it's a great way to destress after work
It's just so much fun. I love biking
I feel like I'm part of my community. There are a couple of people working where I bike past that I smile at and they smile back. Seeing people playing in the park. Last week I bought lemonade from a kid. It's wonderful.

Also, I want to emphasize that shady shit in the marketing industry is so widespread that "the shadier side" doesn't refer to just a few companies; it refers to the shadier side that almost *every single* company in the marketing space has, ethical companies are vanishingly rare and the whole industry is Like This

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I've been fascinated for a long time by how scams work, and perhaps the most revealing observation I've made is that the manipulation and deception involved is virtually *identical* to what the shadier side of the marketing industry (eg. microtransactions) does legally, the only difference is whether on paper you've gotten something for your money

If you're a white person and want to be an ally, you have other options than victim blaming.

Make sure your instance blocks racist abusers. Ask what measures they're taking to ensure the safety of BIPoC folk on your instance. Ask the developers of your instance's software what tools they're implementing to help combat racism. Ask them what demographic of people they're listening to when developing those tools (I can pretty much guarantee hardly any are listening to Black folk).

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TIL that the Windows bootloader has its own battery charging architecture

I have to admit, AI has saved me a lot of time. Every time I start reading about some interesting new app or service or product and see that it has "AI", I immediately stop reading and don't waste any more time on that thing.

abortion access 

The Iowa abortion ban has gone into effect, and Iowans are going to Illinois for abortions. If you can donate to the Iowa Abortion Access Fund, that would be great:

iowaabortionaccessfund.org/

the idea of people using multiple languages in their day-to-day lives confuses the silicon valley techbro

one day i will write a massive articles detailing all the broken things you run into when trying to use computers as a daily multilingual user

hrt; asking for knowledge 

hey fedi, tell me about the differences between different injection methods for E (like intermuscular, etc) and the different injectable esters?

Hi everyone, I'm looking to relocate to another instance, mine is closing in the future!
:boost_ok: Please boost :boost_ok:

I'm souls, we have been very happy on plural.cafe but we sadly have to migrate.
I'm looking for an instance with strong moderation / blocklists & closed signups, not a large instance and mods / admins that are approachable!

We like computers, do queer community work IRL and are from the EU! If you need any more info please do ask. I'm not really sure how all of this works :]

Thank you so much 🙇

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