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re: community moderation hot take 

Since this seems to have confused a few people: the "do what he feels like" quote in the original toot was meant literally.

Yes, that is almost word-for-word what every one of these people says. Yes, the language really is that consistent. It's a very specific expression of entitlement.

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re: community moderation hot take 

To emphasize: the point here isn't the specific thing that they were asked to stop. That may well have been something small and relatively insignificant.

The point here is that they have shown unwilling to consider the impact of their behaviour and words on others, as a matter of procedure, as a default response.

This means that the same will happen for more severe incidents, *including those that you will not recognize as incidents* because it affects a marginalized group that you are not a part of.

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community moderation hot take 

If someone gets asked not to do something by other community members, and responds by laughing at it and saying that he'll "do what he feels like"...

Ban them.

Doesn't matter if the person who asked them was "just another user". Doesn't matter if they're a productive contributor. Doesn't matter if they say they will listen to a moderator. Doesn't matter if it was just a small gripe. Ban them. Right away.

They are telling you that they have no respect for the well-being of other community members, and that this is a deliberate choice on their part.

There is no possible way in which they will ever be a positive addition to the community, unless they change that attitude. It will not magically improve over time. Waiting for them to offend "more obviously" will just harm a lot of people in the meantime.

Ban them. Do not let them return until they have rectified that attitude.

this is what trans people mean when we say

transphobes are literally killing us

it's not just getting misgendered by randos on the street. there are motherfuckers in positions of power over us who hold the keys to our lives

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bring back translucent plastic shells for consumer electronics

David Zinn, street art. In which Nadine amuses a dragon and makes autumn happen.
#art #streetart #ChalkArt #evenietsleuks

lucid dreams, sleep paralysis 

Huh. Just had a dream that was more lucid than any dream I've had in a long time.

I realized I was dreamy, and that I could 'simulate' pretty much any sensory experience. For some reason, I chose "walking in dry grass", "paddling a boat", and briefly "floating in the water".

Got everything; the crackling noises of the grass, the wavy feeling of the water, the proper directional feelings of movement and muscles - I even adjusted the rowing because it was initially not realistic enough, I was going too fast for the rowing I actually did.

My brain got one detail wrong, though; it believed that I was already half-awake and just lingering in dreamy thoughts, but in reality I'd just *dreamed* being half-awake, and I was still solidly asleep.

I guess that explains why I had difficulty waking up, and why it felt a little like sleep paralysis.

🔥 We're blocking the superyacht forum! 🔥

Scientist Rebellion and @extinctionrebellionnl are blocking the entrance of the superyacht forum at the RAI Amsterdam this morning. Superyachts are a caricatural symbol of climate and social injustice.

A symbol, because the richest 1% are responsible for more carbon emission than the poorest 50% of the world population. While the poorest are already the most affected by the deadly consequences of the #climatecrisis.

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Petition to rename follow requests from empty profiles as hollow requests

minimalism is a scam invented by big small to sell more less

I think the community should be a hell of a lot more hostile towards shit creeping into the community, actually.

This is just the next iteration of the tech hype grift, after NFTs and blockchains fell through (it's the same goddamn people!), and it's not something we should be legitimizing as a community.

"Cringe" is the reaction from others wanting to impose their level of acceptability on others for being too weird, too loud, too enthusiastic, too honest with what they are into.

"Cringe" is sad sack pieces of shit trying to make you as sad as they are.

Why do you want THEIR acceptance?
Who made them the arbiter of socially acceptable expression?

As for how to "embrace cringe"

I stepped away from communities where enthusiasm and authenticity were seen as weakeness, where any enjoyment had to be cradled in layers of irony and sarcasm because actually *caring* about something was seen as a weakness, a vulnerability, caring was being a loser.

Also I became a furry.

De coöptatie van XR
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"Een radicale groep wordt in de geschiedschrijving neergezet als gematigd, omdat de door hun nagestreefde doelen (door hun radicale actie!) gemeengoed is geworden. Vervolgens wordt het als voorbeeld gebruikt waarom je juist géén radicale actie moet voeren."

#Beweging #Ecologie #Kolonialisme #RechtseOpiniemakers #XR

"It doesn't matter who started it" is only true if the only thing you care about is having peace and quiet

Which is why, if you're a certain kind of disappointing centrist

You still believe it

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Remember when you were a kid and they told you "It doesn't matter who started it" and you accepted that as Deep Moral Wisdom

They were wrong

Aka "this description of my gender exists for the purpose of cishets not asking confused follow up questions. It does not accurately represent my identity."

#Trans

Netflix and chill, more like Plex server and hold on a sec I just need to fix this, gimme a second

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