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Really want to work on my notes software but it's being blocked by my database project

"some people on mastodon are really preachy how is anyone expected to enjoy this social network"

idk man i spent literal hours of my life every week having to preemptively block literal fascists on twitter and people seemed to be able to enjoy that just fine before coming here so i feel like they should already possess the coping mechanisms required to deal with people they find too preachy

My new social media app is called Grouse. You can only post criticism of the 3,000 other new social media apps.

Posts are called “Gripes.” No likes or reposts—just one button to “Commiserate.” If a Gripe receives enough Commiseration it’s elevated by the algorithm into a “Complaint.”

Also there’s an academic version called “Faculty Meeting.”

One of the most interesting things Star Trek ever did was giving the person in charge of the ship's mental health one of the top 3 symbolically-powerful positions on the ship, and every subsequent Trek has completely ignored this.

I really think one of the hardest things about being polyamorous is the complete dearth of representation for what a healthy poly relationship looks like.

Monogamous people grow up surrounded by media rep of both healthy and toxic relationships and know what both look like. Poly people on the other hand often stumble through some pretty toxic shit because the only representation of us in media is some crummy documentary where everyone looks unhappy and the presenter clearly hates you.

they've ruled that housing rights for couples goes to all people in the relationship.

example given: three people are in a relationship. two are married, but one of the spouses lives outside the city bc new york. The other two share the NYC apartment. The spouse who lives fulltime in NYC died. Landlord tried to kick nonspouse out, calling them a roommate, as the deceased was married to someone else.

Court ruled in favor of the nonspouse taking over the lease after checking with the spouse that there was, in fact, a consensual triad going down.

this is huge.

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De periode dat alle partijen over elkaar heen buitelen om zieltjes te winnen. Lees je in. Welke partijen hielden niet aan hun belofte. Hadden geen actieve herinnering etc. Maak dan een keuze. Je hoeft niet lid te worden van een partij. #nieuweverkiezingen

Hi everyone, I'm a totally blind electronic musician. Looking for a audio, developer fluent in C++ d to help me with a very special open source project to assist blind people with electronic music production. If you can help me, or know anyone in your network who can please reach out and get at me. Thanks very much everyone :-) #electronic music :-)

@deadsuperhero @sikkdays "brands.town but unironic" is probably the most accurate description of Meta Threads I have seen yet. I wonder if The Meta Algorithms would even be able to tell them apart once they federate with each other :blobthinkingcool:

Mastodon's biggest problem is all the people confidently declaring Mastodon's biggest problem to be some weird behaviour or other that I've almost never seen on here.

move instance and follow other people, stop voluntarily hanging out with people who annoy you and then whining about it like a heterosexual couple, """mastodon""" is five thousand social networks in a trenchcoat, sorry you joined the wrong one, it happens, it's unfortunate, but there's no need to be weird about it

advocating violence 

torch every mansion, penthouse, and yacht. make wealthy humans feel and be unsafe

uspol, transphobia 

reuters.com/legal/court-reinst

"A Tennessee law prohibiting doctors from providing medical care such as puberty-blockers and gender affirming surgery for transgender minors can go into effect immediately, a U.S. appeals court ruled Saturday."

Fuck all y'all

the antithesis of "im cringe and i'm free" is "i aggressively regulate my self-expression for fear of being judged as too vulnerable by society, and as a result my very existence is limited"

be cringe. do things people will judge you for. let yourself be vulnerable even if it means giving people a chance to make fun of you.

you'll find people who will be cringe with you and the community you form will liberate you to create transcendental art

Want to bet that the reason for bloggers etc. constantly blaming "javascript" and "frameworks" and whatnot for the demise of the web, is that talking about the *actual* reason would violate their "no politics in technology" ideology?

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Comparing any singular social media service to "Mastodon" is like comparing apples to an orange grove.

They say "Mastodon" but they're talking about the entire fediverse with all of its very different instances, software (including Mastodon), and communities and then compare it to a singular service driven by a singular vision.

It's a very broken analogy.

Here, have a starter pack of *valid* criticisms to make about the web instead:

1. Standards development is, de facto, controlled by Google; because they are the only implementor with any serious weight to throw around anymore
2. The web development industry, like the broader software development industry, has a serious problem with susceptibility to hype; technology choices are almost entirely marketing-driven
3. Individual developers (again, like the rest of the software industry), especially the well-off and privileged ones, often feel no responsibility whatsoever for the accessibility and effects of what they build
4. The incentives in designing libraries and frameworks are such that it is always more appealing to develop a monolithic difficult-to-maintain framework, even though that is technologically the worst choice; because it gives you a clearly brandable and marketable unit rather than a forgettable tool in the toolbox
5. The educational pathways for web development are almost entirely controlled by large tech corporations (directly or indirectly), and serve as "potential future employee" training courses rather than genuine in-depth education

You will notice that the common factor is "capitalism and kyriarchy", and not "javascript"

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sci-fi concept, Asimov's Laws 

AI that's been programmed with the Three Laws of Robotics and due to how they define harm they decide to fully dismantle capitalism.

Also yes, I have encountered every single one of these in the wild, repeatedly

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Reasons I will not take your "the web is broken" blogpost seriously (non-exhaustive):

- Does not distinguish between different ways of using tools that are designed to be used in multiple ways
- Does not distinguish between tools and their ecosystems (where those are plausibly separate)
- Recommends as the 'solution' some hyped-up novel thing that fails to clearly explain how it actually solves problems better than previous options
- Recommends as the 'solution' some commercial product
- Assumes that anything that is "standard" (usually for a remarkably narrow definition of the term) is automatically qualitatively better
- Recommends as the 'solution' some sort of strange infrastructure design that seems conveniently designed to fit one specific service provider (looking at you, Netlify)
- Does not recognize or understand the reason that "web apps" exist, and that that is a separate consideration from what web *sites* should look and work like
- Suggests replacing technologies that have nothing to do with the problem being described (usually HTTP is the victim there)

Seriously, there are so many valid criticisms to make, and so many possible paths forward. Do better, people.

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