devtools-based social engineering tricks have moved on from self-XSS (as just about every big web service tries to protect against that now with large "if you don't know what you are doing here, this is a scam" messages) to "give me a screenshot of a request containing a cookie/API key" or "paste a curl cmdline of a request containing a cookie/API key"
Every time I've listened to marginalised people on how to improve my events, they've got better.
The talks? Better. Attendees? More interesting. Volunteers? More enthusiastic.
So yeah, #nbpy will have a health and safety policy in addition to a code of conduct, because with that track record, why wouldn't we?
capitalism, framing
It's kind of absurd how when some economic proposal requires companies to make concessions, the framing is "this just isn't possible, it would no longer be profitable" whereas when it requires individuals to do so, that's completely ignored and "people will have to find a way to make do"
The likes of Verge will never cover those people because they're not in the spotlight; they're behind the scenes doing the real fucking hard work, taking out the trash, cleaning up the mess, getting their hands dirty instead of fucking around paying someone to make a button purple.
I don't care about a shiny interview with the 'mastodon ceo' in a mag that's only interested in who's going to be the 'next big thing'. That's tedious as fuck.
Give me takes from the people who are actually deeply invested in and stewarding the communities here. Who are setting up strong barriers around safe spaces and holding their ground. The server hosts who are making fedi more accessible by covering the tech for people like me who don't know that side but know about communities.
fedi is a lot of things but I think for me, most of all it's a box in my house full of trans lesbian anarchists
My favourite part of transitioning is when the illusion of cisheteronormativity falls away and you start to understand the world in an entirely new way, and you begin to exist outside of a system that honestly seems built only to keep you shackled and complacent.
And how trying to describe or explain this to a cis person is like trying to describe the colours a hummingbird sees which we don't.
God damn, The Matrix was spot-on, huh?
(For the English-speaking folks: a supposedly 'exclusive' ridiculous NFT thing got leaked)
Oepsiewoepsie de Spookslot NFT is gelekkiewekkie, mss kun je hem beter in een GLTF viewer openen 🙃
https://web.archive.org/web/20230328201021/https://acc-spookslot-metaverse-1-assets.acc-spookslot-metaverse-internal.com/files/fddd718b-fcd5-48fe-b929-ad8cd5e33cb4.bin
https://web.archive.org/web/20230328200505/https://acc-spookslot-metaverse-1-assets.acc-spookslot-metaverse-internal.com/files/c1b571d6-5606-49f0-ad27-cf1ba13668a3.bin
https://web.archive.org/web/20230328200624/https://acc-spookslot-metaverse-1-assets.acc-spookslot-metaverse-internal.com/files/932dd91f-4933-4584-ac6d-327d761f8dd8.bin
https://web.archive.org/web/20230328200515/https://acc-spookslot-metaverse-1-assets.acc-spookslot-metaverse-internal.com/files/8b95f511-7d53-4b72-8b59-3aaad43ed8da.bin
https://web.archive.org/web/20230328200531/https://acc-spookslot-metaverse-1-assets.acc-spookslot-metaverse-internal.com/files/84efaec5-f418-4602-9552-bf5c040c051b.bin
i spent years thinking that i wasn't "really" trans
i "wanted to be" a girl
i hated "being" a boy
i fantasized about magic or science that could change my body
but somehow i still thought i wasn't "really" trans
bc i didn't say it
(scared)
and didn't transition
(super scared)
but i was ALWAYS trans
even before i said it
even before i transitioned
even before i knew the word
there's no legal amount of pride merch you have to own before you're 'really' trans
you are trans enough
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.