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it takes significantly more bravery, courage, and work to be a sex worker than it does to be a cop or any form of military service member hope this offends

It’s ok if your life doesn’t look like those of other nonbinary people.

You aren’t “behind” compared to them. You aren’t an embarrassment if your needs and wants are different.

Nonbinary people are defined in part by how we can’t fit in with many people.

You standing out a little more is perfectly fine.

#nonbinary #nonbinarypositivity #nonbinaypride ..

This is a long read, but it's also entirely necessary: immerautonom.noblogs.org/the-e

[From the content warnings at the top: sexual violence, sexual coercion, child sexual assault, rape apologia, pedophilia]

It starts off discussing Andrew Lloyd's recently outed actions (as "Anarqxista Goldman") and continues delving into how the kind of "theory" he wrote and published permeate through anarchist spaces because of the lack of interaction with or curiosity about anarcha-feminism, queer anarchism, and genuine youth liberation (to name a few).

Customer: GOD HELP ME, I AM TRAPPED IN THE PURGATORIAL INTERDIMENSION WHERE CALIFORNIA VANITY PLATES AWAIT THEIR FINAL JUDGMENT
DMV: AND AWAIT YOU SHALL, TIME WITHOUT END, ETERNITY WILL KNOW THY NAME

Verdict: DENIED

I wish there were more keyboards that are both aesthetically pleasing *and* practical for me (ie. split, and including an F key row)

So this is probably the most important thing I've learned about dealing with marginalized topics: talk *with* marginalized folks, don't talk *over* them.

If you're cis, don't "debate" with another cis person about trans legislation. If you're white, don't "debate" with another white person about whether Black folks experience racism.

Instead, learn from marginalized folks themselves. They're living and breathing creatures, not abstract debate topics.

But don't demand that they educate *you, personally* either (unless you're paying them for it). Start by reading things that have already been written from a marginalized perspective, it's not exactly hard to find with your search engine of choice.

(And if this makes you go "wait, but what's wrong with debating over people, isn't that just how political debate and podcasts work?": you've just discovered why those things are harmful)

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You can tell that Twitter is a healthy company by how they're auctioning off their office chairs

@22 My personal position is even more radical: Universities should not provide any grades at all. If industry wants to rank students by grade, they should organise the assessment themselves. We are there to educate, not to rank.

To be clear, this doesn't mean that legitimate discussion cannot be had about the relative merits of some programming languages vs. others, but when someone tries to define that specifically along the axis of "scripting vs. programming language", that's incredibly sus

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(Basically it's the techbro equivalent of a dogwhistle, a derogatory term for "not a Real Man programming language")

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Reminder that "scripting languages" are not a thing that exists outside of a game development / macro context, and people using it in programming discourse (almost always in bad faith) are typically either necrocomputing enthusiasts or your typical toxic-masculinity C bros, or both

Thank you Tumblr
I needed to hear about relic English still living among us

ed: corrected tense

Customer: ITS MINE AND MY HUSBANDS INITIALS AND THE DATE WE WERE MARRIED. ITS VERY SENTIMENTAL TO US.
DMV: DON’T GIVE A FUCK 24/7

Verdict: DENIED

one of the main reasons to have a collection of faintly ridiculous smalltime hobbies is that it helps divert some of the nerdbrain impulses into mostly-harmless domains so you don't wind up applying them directly to stuff that matters, like friendships or operating a civilization.

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If you think that the problem with antifa is that some of them are violent towards nazis, well, I don't know what to tell you.

custom filters that give me the option of displaying them continues to be one of my favorite recent mastodon features.

Something stresses me out? I can just silence it myself, but I can still see that it's happening so when I'm ready I can crack it open. Or in this case, ignore it entirely because AI generated stuff is fucking bullshit and you bet to hell I'm judging all y'all for going gaga over statistical machines based on plagiarism.

subtoot about this meme of "first they came for the journalists" 

Maybe if journalists had covered all the marginalized groups with violence directed at them as if it weren't a debate with two sides they wouldn't suddenly think that they're the people the gov't "came for first" because god damn that meme is insulting.

Y'all are *not* the people they came for first, and you'd know that if you treated the previous victims as worthy of overwhelming and unambiguous coverage.

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