It’s important, if you can, to give the new folks a little bit of grace
They’re coming from the most toxic place on earth, a carefully perfected hate engine
They’re expecting everyone to be horrible to them, for many, that’s all they’ve ever known of online interaction. They’re expecting to be manipulated, dogpiled, and abused.
Some folks will slip into their new place and fit right in, others might be a little feral at first
I’m not saying to ignore abuse or bad behavior, I’m just saying, WE can do a lot to show folks how this place works and what we expect from each other
And remember, they’re coming up from the bottom of a cold crushing sea
There’s a lot of nitrogen still dissolved in their blood, and they might need some time to decompress
With all the noise about #Tumblr adding #ActivityPub support, please remember that the biggest EEE threat usually comes from the companies that look nice.
(And also #Automattic has a history of extortionate billing schemes for redirects when you moved your blog)
@zkat It just makes me sad watching cool people come over, treat m.s as the "default" instance, then rail about how awful the whole fediverse is off of one damned server.
#Introduction
My name is Fernando Salvaterra, I'm a freelance map maker and illustrator from Brazil.
I'll mostly post art, maps and TTRPG content, and boost mostly posts about nature, plants, geology, archaeology and landscape photos, with occasional left-wing political commentary.
I have no idea how it took me this long, but after two decades of working in the video gaming industry, I'm finally writing my first ominous-sounding "An Open Letter to the Games Industry" post.
Lots of folk end up writing these, and most of them are better than mine, but mine is at least highly specific https://www.improbableisland.com/potato.php
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
- No alt text (request) = no boost.
- Boosts OK for all boostable posts.
- DMs are open.
- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.