Being a woman in STEM
Today was exhausting.
I asked someone to run a test on some data for me and the response was to assume I didn't know what I was talking about. This is not the first time this person has done this, they are constantly speaking down to me about science. I see how they treat colleagues that are men, and it's completely different from how they treat women.
So anyways, I'm looking for more #WomenInSTEM to connect with here! 🔭🧑🔬
Hiep hiep hoera, we bestaan alweer 5 jaar. Om het te vieren hebben wij vlaai gehaald voor op de space. #hackerspaces
Hello again, #fediverse! We used to have an account at @revspace@mstdn.io but that has been dormant for a few years. We're back, and of course now joining the brand new HSNL (Hackerspaces Netherlands) server.
Twitter exodus rant
"hey we are coming to your place because your turned into a burning clusterfuck"
"hey, we are glad to see you, just please follow the local etiquette if possible, it would be very nice and it helps to make our place safe and accessible"
"no"
"what?"
"no. i won't do that."
"but why?"
"you are telling me what to do."
"i am not telling you what to do, i am advising you to respect us. you came here, not the other way around."
"no screw you. i do here what i want."
"..."
@tomfinley @determinerik @odanu
I tried to sum this thought up a little. It might be helpful, it might not, but I humbly submit.
A lot of the time I interact with the offical Mastodon Discord and I'm just left absolutely fucking pissed or disheartened or just ... just ... ruined. Ruined by the bad takes, ruined by the refusal to consider why or how people will be impacted by things. Crushed under the weight of having someone who doesn't get it and prioritises things that only help m.s and m.o make such sweeping and offputting decisions.
Lets support people on here who've been cleaning up for a while. Ones I've learned about are @Are0h and @CaribenxMarciaX.
Ro has a patreon you can donate to here: https://www.patreon.com/Are0h
Marcia has a gofundme here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-marcia-get-stable
If you know of any more please comment in the replies so I can learn about them and support.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.