furry, trans, incredibly neurodivergent on main
It still surprises me how much the emotions that wearing a pair of fox ears and tail evokes in me resemble gender euphoria.
If I hadn't experienced it myself, I wouldn't believe it, maybe even offended by the comparison - these two aspects seem so unrelated and on such different levels of importance.
But walking around my apartment with my tail tied on and feeling it bounce against my thighs or pushed against me while sitting on the couch or laying in bed *genuinely* brings that same kind of "what a relief, this is my true form" comfort. It doesn't feel like clothes or a costume, my brain fully just processes it as a part of me - it's wild.
And sometimes, if I'm cuddling with a partner and they stroke my hair or back a certain way for a little while, I feel a mental shift into what I call "foxmode" where my mannerisms become a lot more fox-like - nuzzling, pawing, nonverbal except for little purrs or yips. My surefire indicator of this is my fingers: in foxmode, I scrunch them up so they're only one knuckle long to look more like paws. And when foxmode wears off, I straight them back out. And all of this is purely instinctual: at no point am I like "let's be a little silly and fun right now".
Honestly makes me question if I'm not just furry, but therian. Maybe writing all this out is kinda telling tbh
CW-boost: uspol
Also the actual thing I made the order for, aluminium profiles, is of quite good quality (for not very much money) so honestly I'm pretty happy
En maar jammeren en maar klagen. Mijn opa zei 60 jaar geleden al, hoe harder een boer klaagt, hoe beter hij het heeft!
Geld geen probleem voor de Nederlandse boer. Helft boerengezinnen bij hoogste inkomens
You don’t need to be Jewish to apply.
$10,000 interest-free loan for folks who need to relocate because of anti-LGBTQ+ laws, policies, and climate in their current state of residence.
@bl00d
making game solid: $350,000
legal: $85,000
office: $120,000
???: $450,000,000,000
someone who is good at the economy etc
Loving how many of these Cabinet members are non-White and/or women.
Krasnov's going to hate every single member of this government. As he should – because it's none of his business.
#CdnPoli
In 2019, Iceland became one of the first countries to approve a four-day workweek. Here's how things have been going for them.
2021: "Trials of a four-day week in Iceland were an "overwhelming success""
https://www.bbc.com/news/business-57724779
2024: "Iceland’s economy is outperforming most European peers after the nationwide introduction of a shorter working week with no loss in pay."
https://www.cnn.com/2024/10/25/business/iceland-shorter-working-week-economy/index.html
2025: "The effects of the shorter workweek in Iceland have extended far beyond the office."
vague about news & CWs, lack thereof
fwiw
there is a big difference between educating people to understand what's going on
and creating an endless flood of The Details
like for example, I am exceptionally grateful how many people are relentlessly documenting all of the terrible things happening right now. this is good and important. sharing it, with adequate warning, is good and important
but I don't need All The Details
for example, I am still on the never-ending hell quest to get my partner in the country so we can finally be together. I wish there were an easier path, like me maybe going to her instead, but this is the best we've got. and knowing all of the details about immigration shit, and trans shit, happening right now, is very useful and good.
but quite frankly, I do not need to be inundated with untagged content about the latest border-related suffering happening right now. it does not help. you just make it so sometimes I get so stressed and upset I have to just lie down and accept I'll get nothing good done for the rest of the day.
please tag your posts. giving it without adequate warning does not help
Aha, rich man, you know the laugh’s on you
You live and die by another man’s rule
And when we both are dead and gone
The legend of my kind will still live on
I now also know why the parcel was delayed by a day because the box had clearly been damaged in shipping and patched up with tape
TL;DR: With Firefox 56, Mozilla combined Firefox Health Report and Telemetry data into a single setting called “technical and interaction data”, which was then enabled by default. This included data about advertising within Firefox’s New Tab page, along with a lot of other technical information about the installation of Firefox. The Firefox preferences UI makes no mention of usage of this technical data for advertising purposes. Mozilla has also recently shared that they share data with their advertising partners “on a de-identified or aggregated basis”. Mozilla has given no indication that this is a new occurrence.
Skype is shutting down in May. I've been using it to speak with my grandmother, and I am looking for an alternative, with the following features:
* can do live subtitles (in French)
* works without a phone number/sim card
* can call your contacts and be dialed (i.e. not only invite by email/calendar/url…)
* simple UI/UX (with big buttons) is far more important than feature rich.
I know various things that do some of the above, but I'm not sure what (other than Skype) does all of it.
Any help?
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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- Boosts OK for all boostable posts.
- DMs are open.
- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
- The devil doesn't need an advocate; no combative arguing in my mentions.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.