I hope #Costco is rewarded many times over for standing by their DEI initiative with a surge in new memberships. People should be as good at thanking companies when they do the right thing, as they are at calling out companies when they fail to do so.
Context here on “saying grace”. It’s not a tradition here in Iceland to say grace before dinner, even among the religious. My late grandmother was a religious fanatic. At one point she had two of her grandchildren christened without their parent’s permission, for example. But she never asked any of us to say grace before dinner at family gatherings
So, when somebody unprompted asks for this at a dinner among relatives here, odds are they’re either born-again or in the early stages of extremism
I WILL NOT repost things here if they don't have image descriptions.
I end up adding the description myself, and frankly I pass over MANY posts that I would have quickly shared but I don't have the time to be everyone's mom and describe everything. (I just do that for the really great posts I can't pass up.)
Please, put #alttext on your images! It will make you more popular. It's polite. It makes your posts higher quality and easier to understand. It's cool. Just describe the images.
Gelukkig zijn er ook schapenhouders die ook dierliefhebbers zijn.
Hoiting heeft geen hekel aan de wolf gekregen, ook al is hij er meer dan 150 schapen aan kwijtgeraakt. "De wolf vind ik een hartstikke leuk en intelligent dier. Ik probeer dat dier te begrijpen. En van wie is dat mooie bos nou? Van ons of van de wolf?"
Deze schaapherder houdt wolven op afstand met zijn eigen uitvinding | Wolf | NU.nl
https://www.nu.nl/wolf/6340097/deze-schaapherder-houdt-wolven-op-afstand-met-zijn-eigen-uitvinding.html
I was *wondering* why Beyoncé went so hard on the country theme for her big half-time show on the Christmas football game. I mean she *is* from Texas, but that was the most "country" thing I've ever seen in my life. (The halftime show was more popular than the game, which also tracks since it was the only part of the game I watched LOL)
Turns out the Country Music Awards snubbed her, and probably for reasons you can guess. #beyonce #BeyonceBowl #Beyoncé #countryMusic #cma #AmericanFootball
racism, fedi, specifically for people who want to or are currently fighting racism
I need to write a proper post about this at some point, but for now, here's the short version:
If you're purportedly fighting racism on fedi, purportedly trying to make it a more diverse space, purportedly trying to make it a more welcoming space to people that aren't white, etc, stop assuming people that don't have their race plastered in all caps on their profile are white, k? (*especially* if you're a POC yourself)
Because you know what that is? White-washing, an example of the very racism we're trying to fight, and something that makes a space seem less diverse than it actually is
The fact that it's used against POC to discredit what we have to say is just the cherry on top (and often even a wonderful example of lateral violence )
re: musings on (cis) "gay" travel, transphobia mention
A quick personal example of a trans experience traveling is that in the Netherlands, every time I go to the immigration office, they misgender me. My gender is already changed on my ID, passport, and birth certificate. The government of the Netherlands has literally never known me as my birth gender, but I still get she/her, even after they look at my ID and I correct them. This is an example of something I'd want to know when it comes to traveling to the Netherlands as a trans man, because it's something I need to prepare myself for mentally to handle. The Netherlands is a "safe" country for gays. It is legal to transition here, but the obstacles are immense. If you used a "gay travel index" to choose where you wanted to visit or move to, you would miss out on the fact that there's a 4-5 year waiting period to see an endocrinologist (even if you have already changed your legal gender in another country). You wouldn't realize that you will get followed down the street outside the immigration office by a group of boys calling you names and then the construction workers will also join in. You probably also wouldn't learn too much about the fact that the language here is incredibly gendered, so if you're nonbinary, there will be some weird moments. You may also not realize that if you need healthcare while visiting, you have to visit a doctor that has signed a specific oath that they will help trans people, because otherwise, they till treat you like shit. Not a ton of places have gender neutral bathrooms either. Yeah, there's certainly quite a few trans people here, but the country is currently largely ruled by a couple of parties that do not like trans people.
This country would get a +10 on the "gay" travel scale, but if we had a trans scale, it would probably be closer to a +2 or 0, because of the barriers to transition and street harassment. It's not illegal to be trans here, but it's certainly not easy.
My favorite speedrun-related exploit would have to be in the puzzle platformer Forward to The Sky.
It was discovered shortly after the game's release that there is an undocumented speed button. Presumably used for level testing, if you hold the Z key whole moving forward then you will walk noticeably faster.
The game also defaults to WASD, but keeps the same key positions if you change keyboard layout, except that the speed button stays as Z. When you change your keyboard from QWERTY to AZERTY, the "walk forward" button is then double bound with the speed button, making you passively move a lot faster. It is now commonly understood that, if you want to speedrun Forward To The Sky, you have to use AZERTY to be competitive.
This makes Forward To The Sky the only sport other than fencing where being French gives you an unfair competitive advantage.
Need a primer on finding community in the pacific northwest as a black enby.
I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas!
Seriously though, I've been impressed at how put off the locals are when I actually start talking, in most instances. Though, there does seem to be a group of folks that I connect with; I just have no idea where to find them outside of saying hullo in the supermarket.
@theresnotime curl -H 'Accept-Encoding: text/infodump ' -H 'Accept-Content-Length: unlimited'
@aeva old arcade games were the same way, but were typically always left powered on. There’s an episode of Seinfeld where one of the guys finds an old Frogger cabinet that still has his high score from back in the day. He tries to buy the cabinet and hilarity ensues.
I've written a tutorial of sorts, showing how to write a streaming XML sitemap scraper using Promistreams! https://wiki.slightly.tech/books/projects/page/example-project-scraping-xml-sitemaps
Promistreams are now officially in beta! (Which mostly just means I have added a little infobox at the top of the page
)
https://wiki.slightly.tech/books/projects/page/what-are-promistreams
Basically, they're streams for #JavaScript that are actually nice to work with, have first-class Promise support, handle errors correctly, handle concurrency reliably, interoperate with other stream implementations, and just generally make more sense than Node streams.
You can use them for streaming data, but also for things like task queues or distribution patterns. They can work in any JS environment, and are not limited to Node.js. More documentation will become available soon (especially for more complex cases), but the basic stuff is already explained at the link.
Please give them a try and let me know how it went, and whether you ran into any issues!
matrix spec venting
Just saw a comment from an SCT member that pretty much confirms what I have long suspected: the intended model of the MSC process and the SCT is "you, the community, make appeals to the SCT and their interests for your feature to be accepted", and not the "you, the community, collectively decide the future of Matrix" that is often implied in its presentation as a 'community project'
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
Feel free to flirt, but if you want to actually meet up and/or do something with me, lewd or otherwise, please tell me explicitly or I won't realize :) I'm generally very open to that sort of thing!
Further boundaries: boosts are OK (including for lewd posts), DMs are open. But the devil doesn't need an advocate; I'm not interested in combative arguing in my mentions. I am however happy to explain things in-depth when asked non-combatively.
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.