Sven Slootweg @joepie91@pixie.town

Pour le festin du dragon, j'ai voulu évoquer les points rouges que l'on retrouve souvent sur les enluminures qui servent à décorer. J'ai donc tout brodé au fil vert foncé sauf les petites croix rouges. Le résultat est plus diffus et inquiétant
2/4

🎵 This is a poor game with a great soundtrack
I'm 48 hours in
I'll never get that time back 🎶

I dislike the increasing prevalence of automatic AI transcription tools.

They all have really shitty privacy policies, and force you to either consent to shipping off your voice for use doing whatever, or not being able to do your job by not joining meetings if anyone wants to use them (bc the general attitude towards this stuff means that nobody cares about consent or privacy).

I hate discord so much, it’s an user-hostile for-profit company, with terrible software, which can ban you for any or no reason, and there’s nothing you can do about it. It’s like building entire communities on top of an active volcano. But the volcano isn’t just indifferent, it is sucking your blood AND hates you.

LB (https://piaille.fr/@TofuTheSquirrel/113270480573673799)

> Things not working is becoming the new normal for a lot of people.

I think that's it. It's the logical terminus of the last 30 years of computing, with everything getting worse all the time, and setting expectations lower and lower.

The technology doesn't work, doesn't do anything useful, but MS spent $6B to acquire it (and untold billions more to feed it) so by gawd it's going into everything and people are going to accept it until there is no alternative

✅ all four modes of transport depicted on EU entry/exit stamps

when you enter or leave the Schengen Area, your passport gets stamped with the date, location, and most importantly how you entered (out of train, car, boat, and plane).

these stamps are going away at the end of the year, so I thought I'd try and get them all before they're gone! thanks to @mattgrayyes for letting me ride in his car :)

hey if you are in places gonna be hit by milton there are some resources including free uber rides to shelters and stuff https://www.floridadisaster.org/disaster-updates/Hurricanemilton/#collapse-23301

It's easy to forget that internet communities collect around all kinds of things, and they can play an important role in people's social lives. Internet communities can be very positive things: but the art of nurturing and cultivating these communities is left to just ... anyone.

What if we made *intentional* internet communities?

What's a sarcastic, slightly unpopular 13 year old boy to do online today?

If we don't make clubs and spaces for young people others will.

I got myself an autistic therapist about a year and a half ago, and for the first time my therapy felt like it wasn't mostly a waste of my time. In that time, I have learned a few things that feel worth jotting down. These are personal to me, though others may find something in them, too.

- Getting an autistic therapist made all the difference. Finally, I can spend the hour discussing my issues, instead of explaining about autism. Not having to struggle with Double Empathy Problems or explain basic things saves so much time. And it's validating to have someone just get things.
- Therapists are not supposed to talk about themselves. But I asked my autistic therapist to use Relatable Stories in our sessions, because they are natural for us and I find them more soothing or inspiring than the usual NT-style platitudes. It's helped with our rapport and I'm really glad she does that now.
- Growing up autistic with parents who are narcissists can really suck. Most children leave home and get to escape the household abuse. But when we leave home, we're stuck in a world that typically treats autistic people much the same way narcissistic parents treat their kids, so there is no relief from that abuse for us.
- Dealing with CPTSD is never easy, but it's frankly impossible as long as the trauma continues. If you get stabbed and want the wound to heal, the first step is removing the knife. If you don't do that, nothing else will help. You have to remove the source of the trauma before trying to deal with it. This can be very difficult, especially when combined with the previous point about narcissistic parents.
- It seems to me that emotional co-regulation works differently for autistics than allistics, so if I spend all my time around allistics, I'm not going to benefit from co-regulation and will probably end up dysregulated. Just watching a youtube video of an autistic person talking for a few minutes can really help if I'm out of sorts.
- A lot of times when I thought I was being selfish, difficult, or too sensitive, I was just having a meltdown and couldn't control the involuntary reaction, and it's not helpful to blame myself for being a bad person because that happens to me sometimes when people treat me poorly. Even if everyone else blames me.
- Explaining stuff about autism to allistic people rarely helps ease communication, especially when you're already in a conflict. So maybe don't waste a lot of energy trying to make allistic people understand autism unless they actually want the education.

#ActuallyAutistic #autistic #psychotherapy