Sven Slootweg @joepie91@pixie.town

I have a problem: there are a lot of very specific projects that I would want to work on, that currently do not seem to exist, but that I also couldn't realistically do on my own, and it's difficult to even start without someone like-minded to bounce ideas off.

Now I could share my ideas far and wide in detail and hope that someone is interested and responds, but I *also* have ADHD, which means that when they do, I might not be able to get back to them in a timely manner, and it may take quite some time before my interest loops back around to that specific project.

I'll likely keep my focus much better once I have someone else to collaborate with regularly/actively, but even then my availability/focus may be erratic, and it feels unfair to commit to working on a project and then make that someone else's problem.

The easiest thing for me to work with is someone who could commit to collaborating on a project, based on the ideas/goals that I already have, and subject to whenever I happen to have focus available. But that is so unbalanced in terms of what each party is expected to bring to the table, that that also feels unreasonable to ask for.

Not sure what to do about this, or how to proceed from here. Like, I can do a lot of the work, in principle, just not on any sort of predetermined schedule, but for this to work there needs to be some kind of synchronized-ish working on the project.

(Advice welcome, as long as you understand what "having ADHD" means and don't come up with useless 'advice' like "have you tried <neurotypical lifehack> to focus better")

KOSA passed the Senate 91–3. Of those 3, two are Republicans; this might be the first time I've ever agreed with Rand Paul.

Almost no Democrats stood up to protect us, and almost every one of them actively threw us under the bus.

If you have a @frameworkcomputer laptop and have the impression that the battery empties too fast when it's sleeping, or that it wakes up from sleeping for no obvious reason while closed, here's what's happening and how I fixed it (on Linux) for my Framework 13 AMD Laptop:
The underlying problem is that pressing the touchpad wakes the machine, EVEN WHEN IT'S CLOSED! Especially when you carry it around or have it in a bag it can happen that the lid/display presses on the touchpad enough to wake!

does anyone here run a mailserver with encrypted mail storage per user that gets opened when logging into IMAP? i know solutions for that exists but a few years ago it looked very janky. i'm hoping it's easier now? ​​

It's both true that, if elected, Harris would likely be by far the most progressive president I've seen in my lifetime, and that she really isn't all that progressive or left-wing.

The standard for presidents for the past few decades has basically ranged from apologetic appeaser to right-wing weirdo.

and now it's gotten to a point that people can no longer ignore that the apparent stability was never real in the first place, just a comforting illusion

so everything feels even worse than it really is because of having to process the loss of the illusion at the same time

you know why things feel so particularly bad these days?

it's because people with a certain level of privilege have lived their whole lives, as have their parents, with the assumption that no matter what battles they win or lose, everything will somehow work out without anything really bad happening

question to fedi: does anyone have a link to that program that let you made pictures out of “tiles” of some sort and it had a limited palette? i remember i saw it on itch.io once

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> everyone fucking hates capitalism, and it pisses them off, but they dont know they hate capitalism, so they just complain about every issue individually as if its some series of unconnected phenomena with no root cause

from: @powerburial@tumblr.com
src: https://powerburial.tumblr.com/post/189012470710/everyone-fucking-hates-capitalism-and-it-pisses
#capitailism

I've seen a lot of awful and ridiculous AI hype in the past two years, but this weekend there was one that briefly took away my ability to even.

I recovered, and wrote up a newsletter post:

https://buttondown.email/maiht3k/archive/medical-science-shouldnt-platform-automating-end/

Dit is een toffe site, zeg: https://waarzitwatin.nl/

Heel veel details over welke grondstoffen en ingredienten er gebruikt worden om allerlei dingen te produceren, de veiligheid daarvan, enzovoorts.

A random thought pinging off a thread about Fediverse culture, but I wonder how much smugness & instinctive hostility to criticism is a defining function of DIY or progressive spaces. Like if you've built something, be it open source software or a community garden or a cycling campaign or a community fridge, and put a lot of effort into it, and someone comes along and says "This isn't working/isn't accessible/is actively hostile to people like me", we need to accept that criticism with humility

But yes the Fediverse has a racism problem, as does the environmental movement, the sustainable living wing in particular has a big ableism problem. And the people raising these issues are doing this not to knock the movements down but because they actively care about them and want to make them work better. And we should be grateful for the feedback which will help these things succeed in the long run, but too often we're not

The reason calling MAGA weirdos weird works is Wilhoit's law:
“Conservatism consists of exactly one proposition, to wit: There must be in-groups whom the law protects but does not bind, alongside out-groups whom the law binds but does not protect.”
If you tell them they're the out-group their entire worldview collapses and they imagine what it would be like if they were on receiving end of habitual cruelty.

for a large part, i don't think techy dweebs #OnHere really want to socialize per se, and I'm not sure if they wanna participate in community either -- in the sense of community as a network of social relations built on mutual respect, obligations, hard work, play, understanding, and joy

they seem to mostly just want to feel unthreatened in a white monoculture that coddles their sense of entitlement, watch numbers go up, and shout down anything that might disrupt that activity or cause them to feel the slightest bit bad about it

in my experience of watching racist meltdowns on the fedi for the last four years, your common or garden whitey dweeb on here is definitely not interested in shutting up and learning shit from people who are different from them, no matter how many "I'm a good person" flags they pack into their bios (landback, land acknowledgements, blm, etc etc the list goes on)

you could probably defederate from like 99% of fedi instances and you wouldn't miss them; you'd probably be happier actually cuz you could focus on hanging out with people who are actually interested in mutual growth and learning without nazis running in and pissing all over the furniture every five minutes

PSA (?): just got this popup in Firefox when i was on an amazon product page. looked into it a bit because it seemed weird and it turns out if you click the big "yes, try it" button, you agree to mandatory binding arbitration with Fakespot and you waive your right to bring a class action lawsuit against them. this is awesome thank you so much mozilla very cool

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