we need one of those pat gif emojis but for neo from the matrix. we could call it :neopets:
Okay, wasn't expecting to see #Blender show up in a Dutch TV show about model building! (Klein Maar Fijn, S03E02)
On the idea that emotional labour isn't something that happens within interpersonal relationships, because capitalism:
The sociologist who really talked about emotional labour wrote papers on the experiences of Black women and WoC who were nannies for white families, and who were caregivers for those white kids while also being unable to be caregivers for their own children who were left in their countries of origin. She also speaks about the experiences of people like restaurant/diner servers (who are also predominantly BIPoC) having to ignore their own emotions while appearing happy, bubbly, pleased to serve, etc. to their customers.
So, yeah.. it's about capitalism, but it's also about the emotional cost of having to provide care for others while sacrificing personally.
The times that I see this talked about as 'that's not emotional labour!!!!1' is pmuch always by white leftists who are shutting down BIPoC complaints about having to educate white people and sacrifice their own emotional states (ie - explaining calmly why racism is not ok, instead of having space to be angry at the racist)... this tracks pmuch perfectly with the experiences of the workers discussed above.
The times that I see people being all 'I'm performing emotional labour!!!!1' and are actually just talking about an emotionally difficult/painful interpersonal relationship, it's (again) been white leftists.
When I see BIPoC talking about performing emotional labour, they've never talked about just an emotionally painful/difficult relationship, and have always talked about the fact that they are non-consentingly forced into the caregiver role in those situations, are expected to stifle their own emotions and sacrifice while acting as a resource for whites, and never get any support in doing so - that IS emotional labour. If you want to analyse it further, it's labour because BIPoC (especially who aren't men) are seen solely as a resource to be used up by whiteness.
So, pmuch whenever I see white leftists talking about emotional labour, I'm meh about their opinions, because if you scratch the surface they're all about either declaring their own 'labour' (which isn't labour), or denying the declaration to BIPoC (who ARE performing labour) because of their shitty class reductionism when it comes to analysis of capitalism and inability to see how race plays into it all.
#racism #whiteness #WhiteSupremacy #FuckRacism #FuckWhiteness #FuckColonisation
Anonimiteit op sociale media staat ter discussie. In verkiezingsprogramma's bijvoorbeeld. Daar krijg ik soms buikpijn van. Daarover schreef ik een nieuwe blog 👇
https://www.ronroozendaal.nl/blog/2023/10/anonimiteit-op-sociale-media-moeten-we-koesteren
not exactly a social media prediction
it might already exist in corners I don't hear about! specifically I am thinking about a sort of... intentional misuse. actively fighting against a platform's intended product design, making it something else, not just a harmonious enhancement
not exactly a social media prediction
i swear i'm not just thinking about https://maya.land/vampire-the-metasquerade/#virtuality again but i have this sense that there might be this genre of social tech use that will be parasitic on a pre-existing platform. like a totally bot-mediated discord server that reimposes restrictions on how people can interact – like https://slowsocial.us/ or maybe more complicated or weird...
If the Linux accessibility stack was just a little bit better I'd have switched. Probably yesterday. But honestly from my limited experience, I've had many random screen reader crashes for absolutely no reason among other random things.
If I could, I would love to fund some people who are a lot better at programming than I to make this thing happen. Perhaps someday...
Privacy-first #programming idea: give every(!) input element in your application/site a little 'privacy details' button, that shows a tooltip telling you why that specific bit of data is needed, where it will be stored, for how long, and who else will be able to see it. If it depends on the user settings, adjust the tooltip contents based on the current user's settings.
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Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.