frustration, mental health
It's really frustrating that whenever I try to take a day off Stuff, I end up spending sometimes hours responding to people trying to ping me, just to tell them that I am having a day off, and by the time things finally quiet down, half the day is already over
Because I need the notification icon to go away, but I also need my Matrix client open, and it distracts me not just for the initial message but also for every follow-up question and "OK" etc. afterwards, and Element doesn't provide any granular notification controls, and it takes me a large amount of time to refocus on what I actually *want* to do, and it *also* doesn't have a reasonable way for me to mark myself as "do not disturb"
And like, none of the individual people pinging me are at fault for this, but with all of them together it becomes an exhausting and unmanageable deluge of notifications, and the tech is just Not. Fucking. Working. For. Me.
PSA for those of you feeling like you're coming down with something since it's happening a lot right now: CDC data for last week indicated that only 0.7% of samples tested for influenza came up positive, so if it's between covid and flu you almost certainly have covid. This is helpful to know because it means you can try to get on paxlovid as soon as possible and significantly reduce your odds of complications
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tram 2125 rijdt met reclame voor werken bij de gemeente Barendrecht. Barendrecht is een van de grootste clusterfucks in de gemeentepolitieke geschiedenis van Nederland.
Sinds 2014 is de partij Echt Voor Barendrecht (EVB) de grootste partij in de gemeenteraad van Barendrecht. De grote leider van EVB is Lennart van der Linden, die ook een tijd senator en partijbestuurder is geweest van FvD (tot het Baudetreferendum van najaar 2020) en JA21. De partij wordt door alle andere politieke partijen behoorlijk gehaat. Dusdanig dat na de verkiezingen van 2018 alle andere partijen in Barendrecht een coalitie vormden om niet met EVB samen te werken. In 2022 haalde EVB een absolute meerderheid in de gemeenteraad. De eerste actie van EVB was het staken van de ambtelijke samenwerking met Ridderkerk en Albrandswaard. Barendrecht moet daardoor een volledig nieuwe gemeenteorganisatie opbouwen en miljoenen compensatie betalen aan hun buurgemeentes. Het is dan ook vrij belachelijk om nu een tram te zien die reclame maakt voor deze geldverslindende machtsopwelling.
CW-boost: politiegeweld, kind
I took my disabled daughter to one of her clubs yesterday afternoon. We were the only people masked there. As we arrived some of the young adults approached us and one said you don’t need to wear masks now, and I replied well we do. She asked why. And I said because we are vulnerable. And a lot of people are getting sick at the moment. And I explained that if I get sick, I can’t stay in bed and watch Netflix, I have to keep looking after my daughter, and how that wasn’t safe for either of us.
People have talked about the idea that a flood of Unity developers are going to judge Godot quickly and harshly for not being Unity But Free and I'm sure that will happen, but I think a great deal of developers are actually gonna be surprised at how much they enjoy Godot, even if they conclude that they can't use it. I think the first impressions, especially in Godot 4, are pretty friendly and intuitive, and the whole engine does have a sense of being "simpler and more sensible" than Unity.
Some people here need to understand that racism is primarily systemic. While there are individual aspects to it (yes, what your uncle said IS racist), that just not using slurs or being a "good person" doesn't mean you're not actively complicit in racism by reifying racist tropes that these systems rely on to keep functioning.
Everything exists within a context, and nothing happens in a vacuum.
Even if you "didn't mean it like that", it's still perceived that way and still lends power to systemic racism.
Yeah, it's tiring to constantly be aware of the impact your words have. Suck it up, sunshine.
This is what we mean by "doing the work". But no matter how tired you are, I guarantee it's literally nothing compared to the tiredness felt by those people who exist under that racist system.
It never ends. It needs to be done. Stop complaining and just get on with it and stop crying about it.
#racism #whiteness #WhiteSupremacy #FuckRacism #FuckWhiteness
Ok so I think that when you can feel yourself gearing up to a rant, a real righteous hill you want to die on, it’s important to consider the absolute logical extremity of the argument you’re making and just hold that in your mind while you satisfyingly dash strawmen to pieces with your sabre wit. Give yourself precisely as much respect as that conclusion deserves; let it temper your ego.
Accordingly, the title of this following rant is:
“Tamagotchis should be taken out and shot”
A reminder:
If your religion requires you to make sacrifices to follow its precepts - like, say quit a job that wants you to do something your religion objects to - fine, I'll defend your right to practice that religion.
If your religion requires other people to make sacrifices to satisfy your lust for power over them - like banning books or making birth control illegal - then fuck you and your "religion" to the nether regions of the planet.
Your beliefs should not make other people suffer.
"Blijf uit de buurt van anderen, als je ziek wordt."
Nog steeds dringt het onze medisch adviseurs niet door dat bijna 60% van de besmettingen plaats vinden als de besmette persoon (nog) geen klachten heeft.
Dat is het vervelende aan SARS-2. Bij SARS-1 vond de verspreiding vooral plaats als de persoon echt ziek was.
The national archives in my city are only open for research from 9AM to 2PM, only on Mondays and Tuesdays, only by appointment, and only for 4 people/day 💀
I was gonna try to see if I can get an appointment but yeah no if I call today I'm probably gonna get one in like 3 years
Assuming they don't decide I can't get one cause I'm not a proper researcher
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.