This is what you get for nicely asking a so called autistic coach for a CW for abuse of autistics.
theautisticcoach @ neurodifferent.me
PSA about ADHD/autism "coaches"
Once again I want to warn people about the ADHD/autism "coaches" that have been popping up all over social media over the past few years, posting relatable memes and such.
Please don't boost their posts, they are a marketing campaign.
There are a lot of problems with this 'coaching' model - all too often it boils down to some well-off dude doing 'consulting sessions' that are only accessible to other well-off dudes, and that do nothing to systemically improve the situation for ND folks.
And just like with any other systemic problem: you should not expect good advice from someone who does not acknowledge the source of the problem, and tries to "solve" it only on an individual level - certainly not if their only qualification is "I'm getting paid to talk to you".
On top of all that, these dudes *overwhelmingly* fail vibe checks once you look a bit deeper into their behaviour and interactions with people. There are often associations with hate organizations like Autism Speaks, transphobic organizations, and so on.
Note that this is only about the "coaching" industry - there are plenty of people who genuinely try to help others navigate neurodiversity and the oppression that comes with it. But those people generally don't make it Their Brand, they're generally not white dudes, and they generally don't charge fixed high sums of money.
(This toot inspired by the "autistic coach" who just ended up on Fediblock for shitty behaviour, but it's far from the first incident, and I've been noticing these people for years now not just on fedi, but also on Twitter before that)
And the broken tech hits just keep coming https://github.com/NixOS/nixpkgs/issues/244486
I would like a day of computer use where shit *doesn't* constantly break from under my feet, thank you
Hey, an instance for black queer folk that needs a bit of exposure to get the word out about it. Please boost if you have friends who've felt alienated by the nazis you tend to find on other, unmentionable servers. https://blackqueer.life
Admin: @tillshadeisgone
Long rant about whiteness (again)
On my instance promotion post a few days ago, somebody responded that we were just encouraging more division by making a server for black queer folks. Well, I blocked that person but someone responded to them and it inspired me to do some writing. I wasn't gonna do any discourse today but whatever. Anyway
it's always so funny to me when white people (for whom whiteness AKA structural racial tribalism was invented) accuse people of color of creating unnecessary divisions. Like, we're just reacting in self defense to Y'ALL.
White supremacy truly is a hell of a thing bc they don't even have to understand that they're getting advantages in order to benefit. They can safely sit in ignorance, blathering on in our replies about how confused they are, meanwhile a lot of us are out here fighting for our lives.
Like, I didn't develop my analysis of white supremacy for fun. I did it out of survival bc I needed to understand how fucked my life has been bc of whiteness in order to counteract it. I didn't have the luxury of spending decades of my life doing no critical thinking about race because race was governing my interpersonal interactions and my societal position from jump.
So I had to do a shit ton of reading and learning and unlearning and struggling and unpacking and rethinking... I had to rebuild myself. Because I had no choice.
And so because of all of that work I had to do and all of those life experiences I had and all the pain I went though, at this point in my life I have some decent insight into what the hell is going on. And I know how to move and what to do to secure a little online space for people like me so we don't have to be quite so fucking miserable everywhere we go...
And here comes ol johnny two-by-four, not a critical thought in his head, "isn't that just dividing us more?" He's never had to think about this before in his life. And he's expecting me to what, just explain to him all the shit I had to figure out myself in spite of all the messages society hammered into my brain?
Nah, fuck that and fuck him too. If helping to craft a space like this is divisive, then I'll be divisive all day long. Maybe one of you can go hold his hand while he flips out bc it won't be me!
/Rant
This is a credible proposal for DRM for websites in general. It would enable unbeatable adblock-blocking. It would prevent user customization for not just convenience but also accessibility.
I do not say this lightly: Enabling the forfeiture of control over the browsing experience is a fundamentally evil idea that must be rejected now, as it has been in the past, and we must remain vigilant against its reemergence in the future.
https://github.com/RupertBenWiser/Web-Environment-Integrity/blob/main/explainer.md
Us: We get fired with people citing some vague citations we missed and our work being "sub par" in spite of the thoroughness we display,
Dudes like this one: "He will also retract or issue lengthy corrections to five widely cited papers for which he was principal author after a Stanford-sponsored investigation found “manipulation of research data.”" and still gets to resign on his terms being called someone with "honor" and such.
something that always makes my blood boil
When someone or a corporation is called out for something shitty, and then there's people actively defending them by going "I'm sure they have a good reason for it" while completely trivializing the criticism and making no attempt to discover or explain what that reason might be
If you're tempted to reply to this post to "correct" me on what an OS is, like one dude just did, then you very clearly do not understand the purpose of this post, and you should think long and hard about whether you might be a replyguy
I grow so tired of FOSSbros
This is brought to you by someone describing mstdn.ca as 'awesomely safe and truly caring'
https://ubiqueros.com/notes/98tnxli4qj
I guess for /some/ people, sure.
Go have a nose through .art's blocklist and see what instances are on there and why. You can find it on https://mastodon.art/about , minimise the about section and expand the moderated servers section. I'm sure there are a few there that you thought were great instances. You might even be on one of them.
Idle hypothesis on how Tech CEOs become Like They Are (aside from nepotism): the way you become a 'successful' tech CEO is by taking risky gambles and winning them, which people mistake for skill and business acumen
But you usually only win those gambles, and continuing to gamble *will* result in losses
yet another tiresome fash dogwhistle to be aware of, "normienet"
this one's been around for a while but some people still aren't aware of it; if you see someone using the term 'normienet' then check their vibes, because it gets used a lot by cryptofascists, fascist recruiters, and fucking weird cryptocurrency libertarians
What if an operating system were designed not to maximize speed, but to minimize things getting in your way?
Not for branding, but for consistency?
Not for seeing everything all at once, but for seeing only those things you care about at any given time?
Not for commerce and work, but for the things that you *want* to do?
Not for stressing you out with technical things to deal with, but for being a beacon of relaxation?
That makes you go "ahh, finally, back to a calm place" every time you start using it, rather than inspiring anger?
geweld, 'panden sluiten'
"De politie ziet dat er ook ondernemers worden afgeperst, meldt de NOS. Verschillende horecazaken kregen daar een dreigbrief: wie niet betaalt, wordt 'gesloten'. Criminelen lijken hier te anticiperen op het beleid van burgemeesters om getroffen panden tijdelijk te sluiten."
Ja, uh, goh. Datgene waarvan iedereen wist dat het zou gaan gebeuren, gebeurde.
Wanneer gaan we dat belachelijke "panden sluiten"-beleid nou eens afschaffen? Het levert alleen maar aan de lopende band ellende op.
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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- Flirting welcome, but be explicit if you want something out of it!
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Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.