I am not in the least surprised that this is where Nova went straight away.
Heck is the first thing I said when I heard she left fedi. 🤣
#Bluesky #hachyderm
How not to be a replyguy, pt. 1: do not argue the status quo
(Feel free to distribute this; not just by boosting, but by republishing elsewhere, etc.)
I'll probably do more posts in this theme at some point, but let's start with a pretty common issue: arguing the status quo.
If you see someone complaining about society or the world around them, *do not* reply with an explanation of "how society works" or anything along those lines.
This includes responses talking about "social contracts", "that's how we've decided to ____", "companies have to make money too", and so on, and so forth. Anything that basically repeats the narrative of how society is "supposed" to work.
The person you're talking to is living in the same world as you! They are already aware of how things work, and they experience it first-hand every day; it is very likely the exact thing that they are complaining about!
"Explaining" something to them that they already understand while ignoring their criticism is extremely patronizing, and it communicates that you don't actually care about their issue, you're just looking for a way to convince yourself that it doesn't exist, by repeating how you think it's *supposed* to work.
So, instead of assuming that someone must be clueless and lacking in a basic understanding of society, trade, politics, or whatever... consider that they understand it extremely well, possibly better than you do, and are criticizing it for a very good reason. There's probably some issue with it that you are unaware of.
And if you want to better understand what that issue is, don't challenge them on it, don't debate them on it; just *ask* about it. Ask a good-faith, non-combative, open-ended question. Take the time to learn from someone who has spotted an issue that you didn't.
meta shitposting
Federation is a privilege, not a right.
Other admins and mods will hold your admin/mod team to a much higher standard than you might expect to be held.
depol, sbg, leaks
ranty / on "floss is bad ux"
Das Baumarktgrauen!
Wenn ihr was für #Insekten tun wollt, pflanzt einheimische Stauden, lasst Todholz liegen, kauft keine Petunien, keinen "Sommerflieder" und sterile "Geranien" und bitte auch keine sinnlosen nicht #Nisthilfen aus der Ramschabteilung.
Mit wenigen Ausnahmen haben diese Nisthilfen alle eines gemeinsam:
Billiges Ausgangsmaterial.
eine eher lieblose, teilweise sogar unprofessionelle handwerkliche Verarbeitung.
ein nahezu komplettes Ignorieren der Ansprüche der Insekten an einen artgerechten Nistraum.
Hier im Artikel und in den Videos wird sehr gut beschrieben, wie man gute #Insektenhotels von untauglichen unterscheidet.
https://www.naturgartenfreude.de/wildbienen/nisthilfen/baumarktgrauen/
Foto: Gestern in einem Gartenmarkt 😵💫🦋
so, because privilege makes people so oblivious
i guess i have to spell it out...
WELL-TO-DO TECH WORKERS
SHITTING ON POOR PEOPLE FOR TRYING TO SURVIVE
HAVE YOU CONSIDERED SHUTTING THE FUCK UP, AND THAT YOUR OPINION DOESN'T MATTER HERE?
i know you must feel like god's gift to this earth because you know computer magic but
consider that that's not the end-all be-all of existence
and that you -- yes, even smart capable dependable you -- are capable of having blind spots
and there's a concerning number of people in this conversation who just don't give a shit about the root cause of this most recent flare-up
they're just mad because people are blocking/muting/whatevering their instance or the one their friends are on
they're not out here calling mutual aid posts "scams" but they still just don't see what's all that important about it
to them it's just "a small disagreement" instead of, y'know, SURVIVAL
privileged fucks
I'm once again reminding everyone of my proposal to take away every single carpark at Auckland Transport and make it a job requirement, at least for the CEO and board members, to ditch their cars and move around the city using public transport and active modes exclusively.
Oh, you can't get to work on time? It's difficult to pick up the kids and get to your meetings? Services are late or cancelled?
Perhaps someone's job is to fix that, huh?
Just one example: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=35738987
"I have a rail line right under my apartment, so I built a small computer vision app running on a Rasperry Pi which records each train passing, and tries to stitch an image of it.
It has a frontend at https://trains.jo-m.ch/"
If game jams are too short for you, consider the "extra" category of the #LudumDare jam, it is more than 2 weeks long so you can participate and have fun without the crunch aspect of game jams.
In the process of moving to @joepie91. This account will stay active for the foreseeable future! But please also follow the other one.
Technical debt collector and general hype-hater. Early 30s, non-binary, ND, poly, relationship anarchist, generally queer.
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Sometimes horny on main (behind CW), very much into kink (bondage, freeuse, CNC, and other stuff), and believe it or not, very much a submissive bottom :p
My spoons are limited, so I may not always have the energy to respond to messages.
Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.