How terribly sad it is when someone on one of the bigger instances *cough mastodon.social cough* is the target of trolling and bigoted harassment and that's their take-away experience of the fediverse :(
Fuck 'official mastodon', making it harder for actual genuine safe space communities to convey that actually fedi can be lovely and you don't need to be on an instance that doesn't take care of its community.
covid and events
I don't want you to have a Covid policy. I want you to have an infectious diseases policy. I want you to take seriously the risk of spreading norovirus, mono, flu and measles at your event. The timeline is not split into "before Covid, when things were safe" and "with Covid, when things are deadly". You just weren't aware of the disease risk of large gatherings before now. None of the diseases are going away. Account for more than Covid.
@JessTheUnstill: I have a strong feeling about this point. It seems to me that as a society, we've been too willing to allow a hierarchy between "developers" and "end users" to creep into the "software products" that we use, and I believe that technical means encouraging people to see, and treat, software not as black boxes but as systems of rules that can be modified on the fly would help neutralise the worst abuses of this unpleasant development.
I'm not entirely sure how to get there yet, though. In the context of web browsers, adding simple and powerful tools to enforce the notion the user has power over what happens in the browser, by means of easy-to-use archival and scraping and "content" re-formatting tools would probably be a good start.
covid and cons
Been looking at the feedback on mask policies from two separate conferences. People seem to fall into three groups:
1) I'll go with the policy, whatever it is
2) The risk of attending an event without masks is too high, so I will not attend without a strong mask policy
3) You cannot force me to wear a mask, so I will not attend if you require them.
You can always get group 1 at your con. Choose between groups 2 and 3.
My random sampling says that group 2 is nicer than group 3. Group 2 is both easier to hang around with, and safer.
Easy choice.
anyway the venn diagram of white trans people who used to be alt righters and white trans people who think their transness makes them immune to racism is a perfect fucking circle.
I cannot get over the hilarity of this review of a Dutch holiday accommodation by a UK tourist, complaining vocally that there was no toaster in the room, and after being told by the frontdesk that that's because "the Dutch don't toast their bread", insisting that "that's obviously rubbish"
(The frontdesk person was - mostly - correct; the bread here is actually edible without needing to toast it first)
"just trying to help" is like a very particular flavour of ableism
"don't push my wheelchair without my consent" - "i'm just trying to help"
"don't lecture me on scammy miracle cures" - "i'm just trying to help"
"stop trying to diagnose me with made-up fad conditions" - "i'm just trying to help"
"don't give me advice i didn't ask for" - "i'm just trying to help"
"no, i don't care which diet you think will cure my genetic disease" - "i'm just trying to help"
"please stop making suggestions for jobs you think i could do" - "i'm just trying to help"
"don't make assumptions about our needs without even asking" - "i'm just trying to help"
"please just give me the prescription i need instead of expecting me to somehow magically fix myself" - "i'm just trying to help"
"please stop forcing me into treatments and rehab programmes that only make me sicker" - "i'm just trying to help"
why are we supposed to be grateful for any of that?
cant stand psuedo-science clickbait
“science says”
“studies show”
who? what studies? the sample size? who funded it?
It's actually very reminiscent of how some people rail against capitalism and prisons, but are then completely fine with a People's Education Camp which is just a prison by another name, just because it *claims* to be different and without those abuses
I really wish people would stop repeating this meme of "permissive licenses are for corporate exploitation, use copyleft instead" and would introspect on what is *actually* happening in FOSS; because copyleft certainly isn't free of exploitation, this meme loses so much of the nuance, and it obscures the true source of that exploitation - thereby ensuring that it doesn't actually get solved
one could argue that copyright maximalism is directly responsible for high profile compromises
after all, genesis market spread their malware through fake warez sites, which were and are the only results to show up in google because the REAL sites get removed from the search results due to takedown requests
The opposite of “return to office” advocates isn’t “work from home” advocates. It’s a rich tapestry of “open offices are distracting” people and “I’ve never gone this long without being sick” people and “commutes are a waste of time I don’t get paid for” people and “I’m an introvert and playing house with coworkers sucks the life out of me” people and “I have a family and appreciate the flexibility” people and “I primarily communicated with coworkers through Slack anyway” people and “no one wa…
Ooof. Scholastic, that's a terrible look, and I'm glad she is letting everyone know, but what a shitty, shitty thing to try and do. https://www.prettyokmaggie.com/blog/2023/4/11/scholastic-and-a-faustian-bargain
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Strong views about abolishing oppression, hierarchy, agency, and self-governance - but I also trust people by default and give them room to grow, unless they give me reason not to. That all also applies to technology and how it's built.